About VsUK

VsUK is divorced and is seeking females for a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

About me:

I am a type 1 diabetic with neuropathy (Google it) because I’m sick of explaining it every time.
I do not drink, nor have I ever taken drugs or smoked, including vaping.
I have 3 son’s who are my priority, even though they’re all 16+, they’re still my everything.
I go to the gym for myself & no one else. I work on myself because I enjoy doing so & it’s also a good release of stress.
I do not want any more children.
I will not be a replacement dad to your children, but doesn’t mean I wouldn’t treat them like my own.
I drive, I love to drive when I can, always finding excuses to do so really.
I enjoy gardening, trying to grow fruit, veg or getting seeds to grow.
I enjoy seeing wildlife in my garden as well, on top of the finches I keep in my garden aviary.
I have no specific taste in music. But I do love horrors, action & crime thriller movies & TV Shows.
I love DIY, fixing things & seeing how things work. If something breaks, I like to see if I can fix it before throwing it out.
I love the sound of rain & thunder, and the sound of a stream flowing around rocks.
I love the snow at night, especially if it’s covered everything in a few inches.
I love to cook/bake if I’m in the mood. Playing & experimenting with foods & poisoning myself in the process.

So, I’ll say it now & very clear. I’m happy to chat for a week or so. But if you’re unwilling to meet me in a public place for a coffee in the day or whenever makes you feel comfortable, I’m not interested. I’ve no more interest chatting for week after week, month after month just to wake up to find myself blocked. It’s even more frustrating when they make a point of not being judgemental, yet prove themselves to be exactly that.

So, for those who are actually seeking to find someone special without a book of unrealistic expectations or standards only fictional characters in your head will fulfil, then please do read on!

My Personality:

I’m a shy, quiet at first type of guy.
I’m an honest person who will not lie or manipulate to get what I want, as honestly is important to me.
I love to chat about things once I’m over the shyness. It doesn’t matter about what, I just enjoy that interaction.
I’m a kind & considerate type of guy, who always tries to put a smile on your face.
I struggle with my emotions because I’ve often had it thrown back in my face, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have any.
I have a big sense of humour, very little offends me & never takes things too seriously.
I’m dependable & reliable. If I say I’ll do something, I’ll do it.
I’m not someone who will run at the first sign of trouble. Life is full of troubles & if we keep running, we’ll never stand still long enough to realise who we’re leaving behind.
I love my family, but I’m not up their backsides, nor do I allow them to be up mine.
I can be a little stubborn, selfish but not in the ways you think.
I’m a bit of a traditional romantic, a little anyways.
I’m a little insecure & low in confidence when it comes to romance & women. This is due to the previous experiences I’ve had that makes it hard to trust.
I sometimes smile when I’m hurting & frown when I’m actually happy. This goes back to my struggles with emotions, but if asked, I’ll let you know how I’m feeling.

My dislikes:

I will not date smokers or drug users. Vaping I’m fine with or ex-smokers. I’ve tried, it’s the sight & smell, puts me off.
I have a size limit. I don't mind chunky women & don’t keen on really skinny women. I was 22st+ 6 yrs ago & I worked hard to get where I am now. So, I can’t be with someone who doesn't care about their own size. That doesn't mean I don't like big women, it just means there's a limit.
I can’t stand liars, especially those who lie when there’s absolutely no reason to do so.
I will not date sx workers, past or present. I value my health & self-respect more than romantic happiness.
Women who can’t leave the house without multiple layers of makeup on. If you’re not happy with how you look without it, then how can you expect a guy to?
People who have photos of themselves from years ago, it’s dishonest.
People who only show their face, again it’s dishonest.

What am I looking for:

I’m looking for someone who can make me smile.
Someone who’s interested in what I think & have to say.
Someone who looks forward to seeing me & smiles with happiness when they see me in person unexpectedly.
Someone who makes me feel appreciated, even if its for little things I do.
Someone who makes me feel wanted & loved.
Someone I feel I can talk to about anything & everything, without worrying about being judged, belittled or having it used against me at a later date.
Someone who will defend me when their family or friends’ slag me off behind my back to her face, instead of joining in to avoid the hassle.
Someone who wants to do things with me, explore places with me & make new memories together.
Someone who will tell me about their day.
Someone who will ask if I’m OK if they think I’m not, instead of just assuming I am because I’ve not said otherwise.

What do I offer you in return? All of the above & more.

Final Summary:

I’ve been single a long time now since my divorce. I’ve had a few short attempts, but they always end up the same way, me being dumped because they can’t deal with being diabetic, unemployed & more recently, my home not being some sort of glimmering palace of tidiness & whatever. I am a little bit of a cluttery person. Stick it in a box & put it on top of the wardrobe or under the bed kind of guy. I keep myself clean & healthy, especially oral health as health is important to me. But that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in people with medical issues, because I have my own as I’ve said at the start. I honestly do not care if you’re rich or poor, highly educated or a bit of an idiot. Working a flashy job or sweeping the streets. This does not bother me at all. Nor am I obsessed with the way you look either. Obviously, I have to find you attractive, as we all do. But I don’t need you to be looking like a catwalk model or page 3 girl either. I am a little picky in the type of women I like, so I don’t message people often on here. But if I do message you, it’s because I think you’re attractive & I like the look of your profile in general.

I’m starting to think, maybe it’s me. Maybe there isn’t someone out there for me. I’ve been on my own a long time now with a numerous attempt to get to know someone that all end the same way. I wake up blocked; they don’t like the fact I’m type 1 diabetic. Or after weeks & months of chatting & calls, I’m told they’re not ready to date, say sorry & block me.

I’m not perfect, nor do I try to pretend to be. But I am genuine, I am who I say I am & I won’t change for anyone. Accept me as I am, but a smile on my face & make me feel wanted & I’m yours for life, it’s pretty much that simple.