About TakeMYHand

TakeMYHand is divorced and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

🌹🔥 CLAIM ME, OR LEAVE ME WILD 🔥🌹

Magical • Spiritual • Freak Energy • Sad • Savage • Soulmate-Seeking Wythenshawe Goddess

Manchester • 42 • Survivor • Mum • Autistic • ADHD • Ancient Soul • Chaotic Angel
British Men Only 😆😂

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READ CAREFULLY.

Real relationship only.
If you want casual, swipe away now.

Must be taller than me, very local, and able to drive.
Flexible hours or semi-retired — availability matters.

Must live alone in your own place.
No flat shares. No living with mates. No living with mummy.

Open to one more child and marriage.
If commitment scares you, don’t message me.

Emotionally stable. Handsome. Consistent.
Not separated “on paper”. Not confused. Not “seeing where things go”.

No photos = no reply.
Over 52 = no.
No time-wasters. No chaos. No pricks.

If you’re still reading — and not offended — you might actually qualify 😌

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✨🌙 WHO I AM — THE MAGICAL TRUTH

I am Charlie.
A woman made from storms, softened by innocence,
hardened by pain, and reborn through pure, stubborn magic.

I don’t just enter a room —
I shift its energy.

My intuition is feral.
My heart is wild.
My spirit is old.
My presence is magnetic.
My laugh is healing.
My love is rare.

I’m not mainstream.
I don’t shrink,
I don’t blend,
I don’t dim myself to make others comfortable.

I walk in truth.
I speak in energy.
I connect in soul.

And yes —
🔥 I am a freak, and I am magically proud of it.
A freak in spirit.
A freak in connection.
A freak in intimacy.
A freak in imagination.
A freak in how deeply, wildly, intensely I FEEL.

If you want “normal,”
buy beige curtains.
If you want magic…
keep reading.

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💔 THE SADNESS THAT MADE ME POWERFUL

You don’t get a heart like mine without being broken first.

I’ve cried quietly behind bathroom doors.
I’ve held my babies while swallowing fear.
I’ve survived wounds no one saw.
I’ve rebuilt from dust with two small hands holding onto me.

I’ve been abandoned, lied to, used, dismissed, hurt,
and still somehow —
my soul stayed open.

There is a sadness in me that doesn’t crave pity,
but recognition.

A sadness that whispers,
“I’ve loved deeper than I was loved back.”

A sadness that wants a man who doesn’t run
when he sees how much depth I hold.

A man who looks at my scars and says,
“These are maps. I’ll learn them.”

I don’t need saving.
I saved myself.
I just want someone I don’t have to save from myself.

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🔥✨ MY FREAK ENERGY — SACRED, NOT SHAMEFUL

When I say freak,
I don’t mean dirty.
I mean divine.

Freak energy is:

🔥 Connection that feels spiritual
🔥 Touch that syncs your heartbeat to mine
🔥 Kisses that feel like past-life echoes
🔥 Intimacy that opens emotional portals
🔥 Breath-to-breath magic
🔥 Bodies communicating in a language older than words
🔥 Desire that feels like destiny
🔥 Energy so strong it pulls us into each other

I’m not freaky for attention.
I’m freaky because my SOUL loves in every direction —
emotionally, energetically, physically, spiritually, magically.

A real man will feel it before I ever touch him.

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💀🤣 THE SAVAGE TRUTH ABOUT WYTHENSHAWE MEN

(My soulmate is NOT found near Civic.)

They want deep women
when they can’t handle their own shallow thoughts.

They want freak energy
but panic when a woman has actual chemistry and confidence.

They want loyalty
but can’t commit to a shampoo brand.

They want a queen
but behave like background characters.

They want intensity
but can’t reply to a message without buffering like a broken WiFi router.

They rev 50cc mopeds
like they’re summoning masculine energy.
They’re not.
They’re summoning noise complaints.

My soulmate is not:

❌ outside Spar
❌ on a moped
❌ wearing a grey tracksuit to a funeral
❌ messaging 3 women at once
❌ emotionally allergic
❌ spiritually asleep
❌ threatened by a strong woman
❌ scared of freak energy

He’s a MAN,
not a cautionary tale.

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✨🔥 THE MAN I’M CALLING IN — MY SOULMATE

My soulmate is a man whose presence feels like magic
before he even touches me.

He is:

✨ Safe but exciting
✨ Soft but strong
✨ Deep but hilarious
✨ Masculine but emotionally awake
✨ Spiritual but grounded
✨ Freaky but intentional
✨ Passionate but patient
✨ Honest but playful
✨ Loyal without being asked

He will:

🔥 Hold my sadness without flinching
🔥 Hold my face when I cry
🔥 Hold my body when I melt
🔥 Hold my soul like it’s familiar
🔥 Hold my heart like he’s waited lifetimes for it

He has big dick energy
and the emotional depth to use it in ways that feel spiritual.

He will kiss me like he remembers me
from a life before this one.

He will touch me like a prayer
and love me like destiny.

He will not be scared of my trauma,
my magic,
my freak energy,
my intensity,
my softness,
my fire,
my past,
or my potential.

He’ll step closer,
not away.

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🌊 WHAT OUR LOVE WILL FEEL LIKE

When my soulmate arrives,
our love will feel like:

💋 Slow kisses that last too long
🔥 Intimacy that feels holy
🌙 Nights lying on his chest healing ancient wounds
🌸 My head in his hands as he says, “I’ve got you now.”
🌹 Touch that feels like magic buzzing under skin
✨ Freak energy that becomes a language
🤍 A home we build inside each other
💫 Fate, not coincidence
🔥 Chemistry that feels like creation
🌊 Peace that feels earned

It will be the kind of love
you don’t find twice.

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🌹 FINAL WORD: IF YOU ARE HIM… YOU WILL KNOW

If you read this with fear —
you’re not him.

If you read this with ego —
you’re not him.

If you read this with confusion —
you’re not him.

But if something in your chest
shifted,
tightened,
woke up,
whispered:

“This is her.”

…then message me.

Not with laziness.
Not with “hey.”
Not with low energy.

With intention.
With truth.
With masculine presence.
With depth.
With soul.
With magic.

Because I’m not looking for many.
I’m looking for one.

My one.
My soulmate.
My mirror.
My fire.
My freak partner.
My destiny.

> Claim me with soul, energy, passion and magic —
or leave me wild for the man written in my story long before I was born. 🌹✨🔥💔

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**With fire, depth, magic, freak energy,

and a heart that still believes in soulmates

Charlie 🌹✨🔥

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Probably the fact I’ve got everything I need in walking distance — Costa, Greggs, and a charity shop treasure hunt on every corner. And the neighbours already know my girls are feral, so there’s no point pretending anymore. 😄🤣

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Honestly? The best part is the flexibility. I homeschool my girls, so I need work that doesn’t chain me to a desk and it means I still have time for good conversations… maybe even with you. 😉

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Hobbies? Flat whites, surviving my girls’ K-pop karaoke sessions, scooters flying past my ankles, spontaneous adventures, and pretending I’ve got my life together. 😄🤣

Where in the world are your favourite places?

My favourite places are the seaside, peaceful nature spots, cosy cafés… But honestly, the place I’d love most is somewhere I feel safe — your heart and your soul.
That’s the real destination.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Places that feel like freedom — the sea, the countryside, peaceful walks. And the Northern Lights… that’s the place my soul wants to stand under at least once in this lifetime.

What would you do on an ideal date?

A quiet place, warm drinks, no distractions… just two people talking about life, dreams, fears, and futures.
A date that feels like a spark and a calm.

What are you looking for in a partner?

A man.
Not a project.
Not a walking red flag.
Not a part-time “good morning” texter.
A proper man with loyalty, depth, and intentions that match mine. 😄

What makes a good relationship?

A good relationship is built on emotional safety, communication, respect, and shared values.
It’s two adults working as a team, not fighting as opponents.

What makes you laugh?

Unhinged humour, dark jokes, sarcastic comments, and people who can handle my chaotic energy without getting offended. 😄

What music do you like?

My taste in music says it all — I crave depth, vulnerability, and truth. From Lady Gaga’s raw soul to Metallica’s edge, from the poetry of “The Sound of Silence” to the ache of “November Rain” — I want what’s real. If music moves you like it moves me, we might just be singing from the same songbook.

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🎶 Playlist Name Options:

Rain in November, Fire in My Chest

Die With a Smile, Love With a Scar

Soul Songs for the Beautifully Broken

Stay — I Missed You, Always

Love Come, Hurt Gone

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🖋 Poetic Version:

I want music that hurts a little —
a voice that cracks,
a lyric that lingers.
Give me Adele’s ghost,
Gaga’s thunder,
Capaldi’s shiver,
Metallica’s storm.
I don’t play background songs —
I play testimonies.
And I feel them,
louder than the world ever listened.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Despite it All

Even in the darkest moments — when it feels like there’s no hope, no future, no happiness —

I held on.

I fought for what I wanted to accomplish.
I knew the journey would be difficult… filled with heartbreak, with setbacks.
Like a caged animal trapped with no wayout,I waited.Until one day — I didn’t wait anymore. I left. With just two toddlers, a double buggy, and a few bags…
I walked into the unknown.
We were homeless for 18 months.But I never gave up.
Because sometimes, the only option left is courage —

Raw, remarkable courage.
I fled domestic violence in 2022.
That was the start of our freedom.
We’re still adjusting, still healing…
But we are free.
Now, my dream isn’t grand.
It’s something real.
To find my best friend —
Someone to share life’s quiet moments,
To laugh with,
To rebuild with.

That… would be my new highlight.
That would be my happiness. 😊

What are you looking forward to in the future?

A future with peace, real love, loyalty, emotional maturity, and no more walking red flags pretending to be men. 😄🤣

Conversation starters

Does size matter?

I’m attracted to taller men… and I won’t lie, a bigger dick is a bonus. 😉 But the connection still comes first.