About Pams2025

Pams2025 is single and is seeking males for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

So, here goes ... Actually I don't 'live' in Orpington, I visit there for a week every month, to see my mum, who is 98. The other three weeks I live in France, in Normandy. I've been here 12 years, the last three on my own. But I don't want to date French guys. I was rather hoping I could find someone who would buy into my vision of a long distance relationship, when the times together (here or there) would be extremely good, but equally we kept an element of independence. It's not worked so far, everyone I've told seems to want a girlfriend/partner just around the corner.
I have lots of friends and lots of interests, but I'm finding (hoping?) that life would be nicer with a 'special someone' to share it. I'm loving, affectionate and generous. I'm a very keen cook. I've been told that I have a great sense of humour, and I like to think that people smile when they think of me! More than that I think it would be nice to discover about each other by messaging, chatting, or meeting!
I would like to be with someone who is a best friend, likes me, respects me, enjoys my company and yes, fancies me too ... I know it probably seems like I am expecting too much but I would really like a relationship where intimacy is all part of a bigger thing, a connection.
With the experience of having been on the site for a few months, I can say that if you don't have a photo, or a good reason for not having one, I will assume that you in a situation where you shouldn't be on a dating site in the first place. Likewise if you describe 'relationship status not specified'!
I am not a prude, far from it, but please show some respect ... I'm not going to divulge vital statistics or preferences to any Tom, Dick or Harry on message 2!
On re-reading this, it makes me sound a real dragon and I'm not, I'm just a bit weary of the tone and nature of some of the contacts I'm getting.
One last thing, no-one younger than 50, please. Yes, I like the company of younger people, but one has to draw the line!!!
I really wanted to create a witty profile of an attractive woman that made you want to contact me ... I think I've just blown any chance of that!!!