About cherrylam
cherrylam is single and is seeking females for friendship or a serious relationship.
The search is on..for new friends for Friday and Saturday nights out on the town - along with new weeknight company too - as everyone I know became prematurely and immensely old-at-heart some time ago. So they're all Missing Presumed Tired now.
I have a dull but okay day job, so basically I want to fill my evenings and weekends with young, interesting and exciting new friends. I foster cats and kittens in my time outside work, but human company would be nice too!
Who am I looking for? Warm, smily, huggy, fun-loving, educated, down to earth, humourous, *genuinely* open-minded and open-hearted company - for nights out in bars, pubs, clubs, gigs, roof-down roadtrips and houseparties...as well as quieter nights together just catching up over drinks or seeing a midweek show or film or something like that.
Naturally, if I happen to meet a warm-hearted Miss Right along the way as a result of my searching, then that's also great! South Yorkshire accents melt me a bit, but are no means mandatory.
It's really important to me to find those who make a point of making themselves socially available for such things and the people in their life too. I've had far, far too many years of spending many months trying to get somehow get into the diaries of people who'll then just back out closer to the time for most carefree and dismissive of reasons - or just forget and double-book themselves. People who'll take less than a year to make a social plan *and* will then keep to them. There's got to be *someone* on this planet who can still do that...
Oh, and fluid conversation is great and a lot nicer to go with than single-word responses or the "how r u lol" style. If that's how you roll, then that's fine - but it's just not my thing I'm afraid! And if we do get talking here and you only like to tell me about yourself one painfully short sentence at a time, it's just not for me as a conversation. Effort is a two-way street...thanks!
What am I like? Blue-eyed, hedonistic cat person. Essentially, if you prefer your men to be all about cars, lager, sports, lad mags, libido, homophobia, transphobia, pub fights, beard growth and calling everyone "Mate", I'm definitely not for you! There are times though, when finding someone who isn't looking for 'Dave Blokey-Lad' feels like it might not actually be possible. In a world where 'beards, bad boys and bants' are an absolute minimum expectation, I want to see if there's someone still out there who is genuinely not looking for that - and still believes in the concept of people meeting and just being *nice* to each other rather than having to subsist only on sarcasm and "bants".
Distance is no object to me particularly for the right person (for example, I sometimes travel 80 miles or more for a big night out)...and neither is size (don't even get me started on size zero culture..) or things like that, so let's go out and have some good times together!
Appearance
- Hair Dark Brown
- Eyes Blue
- Height 5' 11" / 180cm
- Weight I'd rather not say
- Body type Average
- Glasses No
- Ethnicity White
- DisabledNo
Politics
- Stance No Interest
Qualifications
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Qualifications
GCSEs / O levels and A levels (or equivalent) and a degree
Employment
- Situation Employed
- Sector IT
- Income I'd rather not say
Lifestyle
- Alcohol Light Drinker
- Smoking Non-smoker
- Diet No Special Diet
- Religion Agnostic, but I don't practice my religion
- Interests
animals and clubbing and movies and
music—listening and pubs and restaurants and theatre and TV
Children
- Have No
- Want I don't want to have children
Housing
- Home I own my home
- Live With Alone