About Calculus

Calculus is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

I balance a fulfilling career in software with a passion for fitness and living well—whether that’s lifting at the gym, cycling outdoors, or simply enjoying a quiet moment in nature. When I’m not out and about, I’m likely to be found reading, catching up on a show, tuned into Radio 4 or replacing one of many fence posts.

Affectionate and thoughtful by nature, I’m also refreshingly straightforward—always coming from a place of honesty and care. I’m here for something real. Life is better when shared, and I’m looking for a deep, meaningful connection built on love, respect, and kindness.

While I know what I want—a serious, lasting relationship—I also believe in taking things slow. Chemistry matters, but so does building a genuine foundation through conversation, shared experiences, and enjoying the journey.

I still believe in the little things: holding the door, pulling out a chair, offering to pick you up for a date. Those gestures may seem small, but to me, they’re a reflection of genuine care and respect.

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares these values: emotionally mature, honest, warm-hearted, and driven in their own way.

I don’t have a fixed idea of the perfect first date—just good food, easy conversation, and music playing softly in the background as we lose track of time and enjoy each other’s company.