About ADP500

ADP500 is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a serious relationship.

I’m a self reliant guy who is looking to date and see where things go. I’m interested in a relationship with the right person but have no idea who she is. Not looking for ONS etc. Not keen on being a pen pal either, but i suppose everything begins with messaging these days.

I have been single for 4 years now. I like being active and want to meet a great woman who communicates and has emotional intelligence.
I don't take myself too seriously, yes I'm a bit thin on top and I could do with more time in the gym than I put in, but I have good morals, a big heart and a lot of love and respect to offer.

I have loads of interests. Art, music, movies, walking, swimming and holidays in the sun. I like to cook.
I live with my son who is a great lad - no problems there at all - he's a fantastic lad.

I have a good sense of humour (laughs at all the wrong stuff). Likes a cuddle - who doesn’t? I love a coffee too.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

It’s a good area, nice and quiet. Going to be moving soon though, but staying local.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Meeting new people from all backgrounds.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I really enjoy reading, music and playing guitar. I quite like walking and go to the gym now and again. I play a lot of chess online when work is quiet.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

I think Crete is the best place I have been so far and I'm looking forward to getting back there in 2027.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Im kinda obsessed with the Mediterranean, but I fancy Switzerland (in summer - I never tried skiing). Canada would be great to visit again.

What would you do on an ideal date?

For a first date, probably something involving coffee and a visit to something local. It’s been a long time since I dated though so who knows lol? Later on, shows, cinema, meals, theater, indoor climbing, who knows - maybe a bungee jump?? My son and I did one recently... yes it was terrifying lol.

What are you looking for in a partner?

My ideal partner would be open to a relationship, a good communicator, kind and warm. Someone that likes to express herself and likes to hold hands. Someone that understands that a good relationship needs to be a 50/50 partnership. If we have shared interests then that's good, but not essential. It's unlikely i'll take up yoga, but not unimaginable, and you might not like my hobbies, or maybe you will. The important thing is that we like each other.

What makes a good relationship?

Trust, kindness, love, shared interests, communication, no secrets and lots of hugs and kisses. If you have the cold i'll be swooping in with the chicken soup!
Emotional availability is important too.

What makes you laugh?

Comedy, jokes, slapstick, sarcasm, essentially anything if it’s funny?

What music do you like?

Most everything with the exception of punk music and crazy jazz

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

My kids - no question there. I have two grown daughters in their 20s that are off doing their own thing. My son lives with me and he's a star.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Lol, retirement. Seriously though, I want someone to share things with. Adventures, holidays, good times and bad. Im looking forward to meeting a woman that wants the same thing. Hope we find each other soon.