About ZXCVBN

ZXCVBN is divorced and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

Have a bit of a dry sense of humour, sarcastic at times & can find the underlying subtle humour quite funny.

Go with the flow & see where you end up (or thats the aim anyway).

Whilst laid back & easy going ... looking for that special person to relax with.

Laid back but can & will step up as & when required ... or when something interests. Focused, but easily distracted & fall down rabbit holes when intrigued.

Modest lifestyle & expectations. Know the grass is not always greener on the other side, so not really into excess or chasing for highs as not into lifes roller coaster. Having said that, is nice to have a little excitement & a smile.

Have a set of morals, standards, & ethics ... but also sensible about it. Not judgmental, nor expect to be judged except by social norms.

Believe embracing your fears helps address, mitigate or make manageable ... so have been known to do things that would otherwise be unexpected ... like, not that afraid of heights but not that fond of them either ... but have base jumped by wire couple of times off the sky tower, New Zealand (the tallest structure in southern hemisphere) ... as a bit of a reality check.

Although dont do it any more as other things in life took priorty, used to be into sailing ... ocean & off shore yacht racing (Class 0 ... the big boats) & did the Rolex Fastnet race ... where being a team player mattered.

Happy to be part of a team with shared goals & direction, where all genuinely strive to achieve, but also comfortable just being on own.

Have started to get interested in camper vans, motor homes & the vanlife thing. There is something about it that appeals to us, not sure if its the sense of adventure, being self sufficient (or home comforts) whilst your out & away, but its something that we are looking to do. Maybe its just that its like boats, but more practical.

Very open, as dont see the point of not ... as whats achieved by not if it gets you something you loose later, was not yours to have. Everything comes out in the end, so playing games is not my style.

Can occasionally over think things, be self critical, but thats the best way to be achieve goals or standards, but do know there are times when they need to be relaxed. Also often work in compliance roles or highly regulated environments so that & being a detail guy does well for the type of work we do. More methodical than haphazard. Can do the deep dive, but also the coffee time surface level stuff if thats what required.

Like to have a positive outlook on things & life, but even whilst looking at things positive (glass half full), can still have a cautious approach, or have a plan B / C option as have not say a risk adverse approach, but more a risk aware & plan to mitigate potential risks in case they may arise (in some things, other things can be caution to the wind ... especially if super relaxed lol).

Work in construction management as the main job or profession, but sometimes work in transport as something to do during quiet periods more as a fun job ... driving artic HGV's which happened to do during a period of boredom, when didnt need a job for the money but was more for something to do with too much spare time & found enjoyed it ... to the extent it was actually quite relaxing. Something about driving very large vehicles long distances through the night on your own appeals & brings an odd sense of calm.

Everybody has various life experiences, complications, obligations that shape who they are, what they think or things they do &/or avoid, want &/or value ... the real question is the direction your heading, who with & how can both your lives be enhanced.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Trees, parks just a short walk away & the community spirit. Easy access to motorway & most places.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Achieving things, meeting peoples expectations or exceeding them.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Coffee & newspapers (tho nowdays, more internet browsing), watching a good film or box set ... and also starting to get into camper van / motor homes, so exploring new places.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Chicago, Provence, France, New Zealand ... but do like places closer & around the UK too, especially Wales or South coast like Torquay.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Where the Berlin wall once stood, maybe Chicago to see how its changed.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Coffee on veranda overlooking a scenic view ... then walking somewhere to have a meal with good conversation.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Honesty, compassion & caring nature ... but with a cheeky smile & glint in their eye.

Somebody that wants a life partner as an equal.

What makes a good relationship?

Honesty, trust & communication.

What makes you laugh?

Sarcastic moments, that rolled eye look or the comedy line thats delivered with the straight face & that you were not expecting.

What music do you like?

Pretty much most stuff, tho 80's & synth pop is always good.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Suppose its getting this far ?

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Maybe sharing it with somebody who cares.

Anything else ...

If you want to get a better idea of what we are about, our views & values, we have posted & are quite active a bit in the forums on here ... which will probably give you a better idea than us just completing our profile.

Or, drop us a DM to ask, find out ... or just to say hi & see where it goes.