About TrudyC

TrudyC is divorced and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

Let’s be honest….after a few days on here: No pic, no reply. And don’t just send me a wink…if you want a conversation then start one. Come on boys; you can do better…

I’m a good, independent, solvent, open-hearted & deep thinking woman. I prefer the intimacy of a small group to big crowds unless I’m rocking at a music gig when the shared connection you get with all those people is such a thrill! Live music is 🎇
A friend described me as “huge hearted” & I felt deeply grateful that, what I strive to be, comes through to others. My inner circle is small, close & those folk are everything to me so I’d do anything for them.
I love theatre…to give you a flavour, saw The Seagull and Three Sisters recently. Big cinema/film fan & read. A lot. At home, music of all sorts is always on. Last gigs were John Bramwell & Idles 🤘🏻 Having a big fat catchup over dinner or a cuppa brings more joy. I've a wee dog so walk a lot & love being close to the sea. If I could live overlooking it, that’d be perfect. I’m not massively sporty but do love a game of tennis/table tennis. Pilates, meditation & sea swimming are a growing part of day to day life & I've decided to take every chance to dance my cares & the night away!
I’m an optimist, think the best of others & would rather that and be occasionally disappointed in people, than never see the good or never forgive. I’m not perfect either & probably can be a (nice one, I hope!) pain in the arse sometimes too 🫣.
I’ve no expectations of this site; who knows who’s out there. I'm in no rush. If you’re a boy who's genuine, self-aware, at ease with himself, empathetic, a thinker, likes a giggle & wants company, kindness & some fun then I could be your girl 🤭. Sounds like a shopping list; it's not, I’m just looking for you to ‘get me’, you know? What I'm really interested in is how being with you makes me feel and think, & what sides of me you bring out. The dream is to enjoy a silence but also never run out of things to talk about be it about everything and nothing.
I've travelled but not as much as I want; I plan to breathe in more of the world. A partner in crime to share life’s adventures & challenges would be a cherry 🍒