About Tom1955
Tom1955 is widowed and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.
Now retired I am free most afternoons and weekends for socialising etc. I don’t drive these days and can’t use public transport so if it comes to us meeting, I’m afraid you will have to come to me.I hope that will be okay I volunteer at a Stroke and Neuro Therapy Centre offering peer support to people with complex needs both physical and neurological. It's very fulfilling and as one of the founders, something I'm immensely proud of. I live by myself an d I’m always outgoing, upbeat with a quick sense of humour. I like to make people laugh. I have a wide-ranging taste in music, comedy, TV films and have wide interests including animal welfare, ecology, industrial, scientific, medical, and technical. I used to be an accomplished cook, but I’ve had to accept some limitations. I lost my wife to cancer in 2021 but now I’m looking forward to meeting a new special person, sharing experiences and creating new memories. I enjoy music and comedy gigs, pub quizes but I’m equally at home on the settee eating rubbish snacks, watching rubbish movies on Netflix. It would be nice share some aspects of my life with someone new who is interesting, can hold a conversation, make me laugh and give me some inspiration and probably a good kick to challenge me out of my comfort zone. I am warm and considerate and a hopeless romantic. Holding hands and hugging are two of my better skills and I’m a very good non-judgemental listener. I am not looking for ONS but a friendship leading to a long-term relationship. If you find any of this remotely interesting, why not get in touch to see if we have any chemistry going forward.
What do you like most about where you currently live?
Quiet, safe, good nighbours
What do you enjoy most about your current job?
No job I have retired from work
What are your favourite leisure activities?
Music, Movies Reading, TV
Where in the world are your favourite places?
MostEuropean and Scandinavian cities
Where in the world would you love to visit?
Iceland Scandinavia Nordic Scotland
What would you do on an ideal date?
Dinner drink movie music gig comedy gig
What are you looking for in a partner?
honesty integrity, fun, good looks
What makes a good relationship?
honesty integrity fun
What makes you laugh?
good jokes dad jokes
What music do you like?
prog 1970s 1980s blues most genres
What has been the highlight of your life so far?
My children and grandchildren
What are you looking forward to in the future?
a new partner someone to share experiences, create new memories
What you need to know about me
It would be nice share some aspects of my life with someone new who can be interesting, hold a conversation, make me laugh and give me some inspiration and probably a good kick to challenge me out of my comfort zone. I am warm and considerate and a hopeless romantic. Holding hands and hugging are two of my better skills and I’m a very good non-judgemental listener. I have a broad and open mind. I am certainly up for some fun but for the right person there may be romance and more, possibly leading to a long-term relationship. If you find any of this remotely interesting, why not get in touch to see if we have any chemistry going forward.
Appearance
- Hair Grey
- Eyes Green
- Height 5' 8" / 173cm
- Weight 12 st 9 lbs / 80kg
- Body type Average
- Glasses Yes
- Ethnicity White
- DisabledNo
Politics
- Stance No Interest
Qualifications
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Qualifications
GCSEs / O levels and a BTEC (or equivalent) and A levels (or equivalent) and a qualification which was not listed as an option
Employment
- Situation Retired
- Sector IT
- Income between £10,000 and £19,999
Lifestyle
- Alcohol Light Drinker
- Smoking Non-smoker
- Diet No Special Diet
- Religion Spiritual, but I don't practice my religion
- Interests
animals and antiques and arts and books and computers and cooking and countryside and dancing and DIY and family and gym and health and movies and
music—listening and outdoor activities and photography and pubs and spirituality and restaurants and theatre and travel and TV
Children
- Have Yes (not living at home)
- Want I don't want to have more children
Housing
- Home I own my home
- Live With Alone