About TheBigFish

TheBigFish is separated and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

I think attraction helps. Not the whole story, but a pretty good opening chapter.

I’m easy-going, relaxed, and generally happier in real life than I am in endless chats. I like people who can flirt properly, laugh at themselves, and enjoy a bit of playful back-and-forth.

The best evenings usually start with “just one drink” and somehow end several hours later wondering where the time went.

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What I’m looking for

Someone confident, playful, and comfortable in their own skin.

A woman who enjoys a little tension, a little anticipation, and understands that the best connections aren’t always the loudest ones.

If you can flirt, hold a conversation, and occasionally encourage bad decisions involving another round, we’ll probably get on very well.

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Interests

• Drinks that accidentally become an entire evening
• Good conversation and quick wit
• Chemistry you can feel, not analyse
• Making plans and then happily ignoring them

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First date

A drink somewhere relaxed.

No interviews. No checklists.

Just enough conversation to discover whether we’re both smiling for the same reason.