About SpookyPol

SpookyPol is divorced and is seeking males for a serious relationship.

I'm me, what you see is what you get. I'm very to the point, speak fluent sarcasm and like to think I'm quite funny.
I'm a paranormal loving, intuitive energy worker, but on the flipside I'm also very meno and that seems to have eroded any filters I may have previously had.
No time for people with no profile pics, let's face it: you eat with your eyes. I love my life so a partner is a want, not a need.
I'm very instinctive so if I don't reply to your message then apologies but I'm not feeling it, I don't want to waste your time replying just to say sorry you're not for me but I wish you well.
I'll try and do some FAQs:
Yes I'm 50, women generally don't lie about their age to make themselves older, I'm just a Gen X, we all look younger than we are. When you have to enter your DOB on a website it's like spinning a roulette wheel.
Yes I'm 6ft, I'm not going to make myself sound like Hagrid if I'm shorter.
Don't have children, never wanted to, no regrets. Please don't try and talk me round if you have kids living at home. It's not what I want in my world. Dads that love their kids: fabulous, too many deadbeats in the world but I'm not up for being involved.

Good luck in your quest to find your one. We're all hopeful and there's someone out there for everyone. Just remember: if we're on here it's because we know you can't send pics, yeah, you know who you are! Stop it! And grown men with Snapchat? It's a no from me!

What do you like most about where you currently live?

It's mine, I bought everything and decorated everything. It's my energetic space where it's calm and my retreat

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

It's really varied, rewarding, fast paced, caring, fun and stressful all in one

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I volunteer as an event host for a paranormal events company so that takes up some weekends. I like to swim, read and I confess: I watch home reno videos on tiktok like it's TV

Where in the world are your favourite places?

I love Italy but my true favourite place is universal studios Orlando for Halloween Horror Nights.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

New Orleans. So many haunted places to investigate

What would you do on an ideal date?

Go with the flow. Sometimes coffee or lunch is good, maybe dinner and drinks or a walk, museum or something interesting

What are you looking for in a partner?

A tall, big fella please! I like people I can talk to, preferably with no young children at home. I've made it to 50 without parenting and I don't want to start now! Intelligent, and someone who likes exploring new places.

What makes a good relationship?

Connection, compromise, shared interests and the ability to laugh with each other.

What makes you laugh?

Dark humour. Not going to lie: if you fall over or something I will laugh. I'll help you up, but I'm going to laugh.

What music do you like?

A huge variety: 80s, 90s club classics, EDM, bit of country. Basically if I hear something and like it, I'm not a genre snob!

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Couldn't pick one, besides I don't think I've peaked yet!

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Who knows what the future holds? I believe what's meant for you comes to you