About Ray1981

Ray1981 is single and is seeking females for friendship or a serious relationship.

First off when I message you and you aren’t interested as least explain why I am not a mind reeder instead of leaving me on read or blocking me which is just rude at least have some manners. Manners cost nothing.

Hello there my names Ray. I am on here to make some friends here see how things go and if things develop then I am ok with that maybe leading to a relationship of some kind then great.

I am shy (at first till you get to know me), I am easy to talk too, Chivalrous, nice, genuine, honest, funny, empathic, a good listener and much more. I like to play Video games, sing, collect Funko pops, Collect Yu-Gi-Oh cards,, spend time with friends and family in Southend, watch stuff online, a cosplay dabbler at conventions and listen to music and go for walks in nature.

If you want to know more or just to chat to see if we vibe/get on then don’t hesitate to message me back ok?

Btw I am autistic so no small talk.

PS: Been told I have gorgeous eyes.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Does anyone really enjoy their job?

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Gaming, singing, listening to music, going on walks, watching stuff online, collecting Funko pops and spending time with friends and family.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

My favorite place is Southend on Sea.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

If I didn’t have a fear of flying maybe somewhere like Japan or somewhere tropical or exotic.

What would you do on an ideal date?

For a first date go somewhere quiet for a drink and a chat to get to know each other better. Second date definetly something more fun like going to the arcades or maybe something we can both agree on.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Honestly been single for 14/15 years so I have no bloody clue tbh but I will know when I find it.

What makes a good relationship?

Communication. Making time for one another, chemistry, and open body language

What makes you laugh?

It depends probably comedies, dirty jokes or things that make me laugh for no apparent reason (I blame the autism 😂)

What music do you like?

Really into stuff I listened to when I was growing up my mum got me into Bon Jovi, Metallica and other rock bands but like a bit of everything it depends on my mood thank god for Spotify 😂.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Me getting a CPCAB level 2 in introduction to counseling skills.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Hopefully to find my forever person (been single for 14 almost 15 years)