About peli

peli is single and is seeking males for a serious relationship.

I am a tall lady, looking for someone who is white, and as tall as me. Someone who is too daring to resort to sending winks, and so impatient to make a date that chatting online seems wimpy.

Because 98% of messages that are sent to me are from men who do not meet the following characteristics, I am going to automatically block those that don't meet all of them, without sending any messages in reply.

If you are under the age of 55, under 5' 10" tall, not Caucasian, have facial hair, have tattoos and you send me a message then it will not be responded to.
Nor will those that practice a religion, smoke, are teetotal, are vegetarian, or who just want to chat online or via my personal phone number.

I won't ever swap phone numbers or social media contact details with anyone I have not first met, so don't ask me to move to another website or a different platform.

I am allergic to cats and dogs so if you have any that you aren't prepared to keep permanently out of the house then don't send me a message.

I am an intelligent, fun-loving person, who refuses to grow up.
I am missing that extra-special person who is charming, beguiling and meets all of the above criteria. Someone who makes friends easily and might be the one to shake up my world a little.
Intelligence is also a turn-on (note, not formal education, necessarily, as a little bit of savvy in life goes a long way).

In my free time I like to go wine tasting and to good restaurants or better still have the special people in my life come to enjoy my cooking and my wine. I would love to share my passion for cooking and wine, and, for passion itself.

I look forward to seeing where this leads us.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

I'm in a great location for transport links to most other parts of London and easy access to the rest of the world.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I don't have a job as I am now retired.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I really love to cook. Trying new experiences and new locations is a hot second.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Snorkelling in the Maldives was amazing. the weather really was like being in paradise.
My favourite city is San Francisco because it is so varied in its inhabitants and its culture as well as being a human-sized built environment.
Cape Town keeps drawing me back; pity about its lack of adequate public transport.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Australia is definitely on my list, partly because everyone else has been there except me.
The Western Isles of Scotland and Shetland are always on my list but I never have made the opportunity to go there, much though I'd love to.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Being outdoors on a sunny day, either walking or cycling. A picnic lunch of carefully selected delicacies and good wine and lots of banter and laughing.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Someone who has read my profile and meets my requirements listed there. Someone who is not scared of taking a decision, who is dependable, honest, successful and amiable.

What makes a good relationship?

I wish I knew. I wish I knew.

What makes you laugh?

Intellectual banter as seen on TV programmes like QI and Have I Got New For You.

What music do you like?

Anything except hip-hop, rap, country-and-western or jazz.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Flying solo in a powered aircraft

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Meeting new and interesting people

Why won't you chat online?

Because it is a false method of communication for anything other than commercial interactions and/or scamming people.
Nothing beats assessing the chemistry between 2 people like meeting in person and sharing the same time and space.