About ls5

ls5 is separated and is seeking females for friendship or a serious relationship.

Hello, just looking to see how this evolves and take things step by step. However, I don't and will never do casual relationships or one-night stands but instead seek only stability. Also dating in my mid 40s is weird and I feel nervous and unsure if 5 years of separation since the global Covid-19 pandemic, causing the problem, is still too soon to move on? Either way, my children come first, especially their education. Besides, 'trust' is extremely hard to build but very easy to lose. 'Faith' on the other hand, I do believe in, as that brings 'hope' (Not referring to religious faith, but faith in humanity). So, after everything else, especially after needs for my children are covered, regardless of them being around me or not, there is then time for me. Anyway, I 'LOVE' Computer Science. I also 'LIKE' Nature Science, History, World Movies, World music from super old classic relics to even extreme metal, World Cup Cricket & Football, science and wildlife related TV shows, and pretty much can give a try at other things that might interest my possible better half. I also find world cuisines and world travel vlogs interesting. However, please, absolutely no illicit stuff like drugs! I smoked tons of tobacco before, but now using nicotine patches and gum primarily, and sometimes, vapes. I DELIBERATELY put HEAVY SMOKER to see who actually bothers to read a profile. And it is NOT totally inaccurate because I do use the strongest Nicotine patches and gums that is there on offer. Vapes are a last resort. Any phobias? Yes! Bumbling yellow jacket wasps. Those things are aggressive and can fly and I cannot. My escapist Pisces sun sign tries to run for the hills while my Scorpio moon tries to use rage against those vicious beasties. Please don't expect me to be your Knight in Shining Armour with wasps about. If anything, I would hope that you are my Joan of Arc! Sorry, no harm telling the truth as it is! Also, there is fear of swimming where I can't find my feet. The only thing that makes sense is some sub-conscious loss of confidence from being an infant once nearly drowned by the sea and then revived. However, my brain recalls nothing. If it helps, I did a personality test and got INFJ-A? Now, I just realised, that I wrote too much while in the zone. Sorry for the long yapping about myself. Take care and have a great day and wish you best in your searches.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

One of the most cosmopolitan city by far and also the most breathtaking.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

My work involved dealing with highly complex scenarios where sometimes managing new IT infrastructure was as interesting as the people using it. I have also worked in the hospitality sector even though it is a completely different profession.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Reading, learning,music of a massive genre from anywhere, movies (more of thrillers, suspense action)

Where in the world are your favourite places?

up in the mountains and down by the sea

Where in the world would you love to visit?

rest of europe, far east, japan, korea. not affected whatsoever by whims of politics

What would you do on an ideal date?

Perhaps a movie or even meet initially at a cafe?

What are you looking for in a partner?

step by step, and then see from there.

What makes a good relationship?

faith in people to do the right thing.

What makes you laugh?

funny movies and tv shows or from reading books that are also hilarious or the "fool", (the smartest jester during Shakespearean times)

What music do you like?

from oldies pop to extreme metal but not hiphop

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

my sons, need for education,concept of love,care and compassion and everlasting thirst for knowledge and science

What are you looking forward to in the future?

knowledge and work in interesting IT sectors