About Kiwifruit23

Kiwifruit23 is single and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

Well, before you decide to read my bio, please see the recommendations below:-

1. Book time away from work 😄

2. Make sure you've fed the cat, dog and/or kids first !😊

3. Bring a picnic, popcorn bucket and a drink ! - I'm not joking😆

4. Settle in for the day/night😆

5. Lastly, keep smiling, coz this girl is for real😊

**🙏 Please kindly don't send likes or messages if you either do not have a profile photo or your write up is incomplete. This is not my being 'shallow' but it's all about transparency and trust. Plus would you say for example, be interested or even buy a car online or anything for that matter without actually seeing what it looked like first..nope !! So, messages without photos I will not respond too.😊

Joking aside. I'm articulate & intelligent but that in no way makes me boring. I'm independent and strong minded but that doesn't make me awkward, hot headed or difficult, its the opposite infact but I do know my own mind. I can handle most situations without confrontation as I'm so very calm by nature. I think what I'm trying to say, very inarticulately is I'm a girl who doesn't really need a guy to take care of her instead I'd like to find a guy for whom we can put all our life skills together, tag team and together become an awesome unit, make sense?

I love music, travel, the ocean, motorsports, rugby, athletics, well okay I love most sports aside cricket, golf & fishing but if you happen to like any or all of these it's not a deal breaker, it will just give me some of that all important 'me time ' I'm also a great cook, great homemaker and very importantly I am NOT a materialistic person. That doesn't mean to say I don't like nice things, it just means its not a priority to me.

I've a genuine beautiful heart of gold and will do all I can to make my guy the happiest ever. I know and value my self worth and in todays fickle society that is really important to hold on too. My kindness often gets taken advantage of but I've learnt over time not to allow it to be my weakness.

I'm pretty low maintenence, self sufficient and driven and thrive on setting goals and challenges for myself. I'm not egotistical by any means but I know my true value. I am naturally attractive, no add ons, upgrades ( lolz ) , filters or Made in China bits or otherwise😄😄 I keep myself very fit and healthy and I'm quite proud of who I am 😊

I'm working on a mid term contract in the UK currently but I'm originially from Oceania, I've travelled & lived the world over and would love to do it all over again with that special guy. So for me distance is not an issue. I mean, realistically speaking, the chances of your soulmate/twin flame living on your street or around the corner are about a billion / trillion to one, so I'm definitely keeping my search real.

I am a woman who believes in fully investing in her man, supporting him, guiding & encouraging him to achieve his goals and be an even better version of the man than he already is.

I am looking for

Tough question to answer for sure but I do know that opening up and giving your heart to someone is one of, if not the biggest risks we all take. So knowing what you want, knowing your self worth are very important things to never forget. Never settle for less than you feel you desire and deserve and most certainly never settle for being an "option" or second best. Never settle for being undervalued or undermined and definitely never settle for someone who may only want you for what you may be able to provide

For me, i don't have a "type" that much I do know, but on the other hand I do kinda know what I'm looking for

To generalise

"I'm simply looking for a genuine, loyal, honest and trusting guy, a truly rare gem of a man that I'm beginning to think is perhaps non existent, yet my search is still hopeful & ongoing"

I'm not looking for perfection, it doesn't exist, but I am looking for a guy who carries his imperfections openly and honestly and who pretty much wears his heart on his sleeve.

A man who above all else is genuinely loyal, faithful, trusting and sincere. I'm not interested in games, players, one night stands or easily disposable relationships - I'm genuinely looking for my last love, so a special guy who will make me take a step back and say "wow"
A guy who one day I can learn to love so deeply and respect so openly that i'd be so proud to call him my King.

A guy who will both capture and maintain my interest and attention. A guy who has my back, is prepared to walk alongside me as an equal and a guy who can bring out even bigger smiles in me each day.

A guy who's a good communicator, non confrontational and sincere. We all have baggage, we've all been hurt, some badly, myself included. The main thing is, make sure your bags are well and truly packed and you've left them behind bcoz carrying your baggage into a new relationship will likely end up with history repeating itself. HOWEVER, what is perfectly OK is carrying your scars, that's different..and we all have them.

I would love to wake every day next to an amazing man who can make me count my blessings a million times over and at night, snuggle down with my arms wrapped tightly around him and feel so amazingly at peace. A guy who can make me laugh and smile uncontrollably until my sides hurt. A guy who is strong, physically and mentally, yet at the same time has a warm loving heart ( hard to find, trust me ).

Intelligent but not geeky, smart but not dull.

A guy with a sense of adventure, spontaneity and full of amazing surprises that I can spend the rest of my life discovering.

And finally, a man who trusts, loves and believes in THE great man upstairs 🙏

In conclusion..

I'm looking for a really genuine honest guy with a good heart who's truly ready for a unique girl like me to come into his life