About julian4

julian4 is single and is seeking females for a serious relationship.

I am looking for a reliable partner, someone who is comfortable in their own skin. I am insanely loyal, but not possessive, giving each other space, and I expect the same in return. I am analytical and creative, a little quirky, a little offbeat, a little obsessive about the things that I love. I play guitars. I am writing my first novel. For a job I help people resolve their addiction issues - and it is demanding to say the least. I am not afraid of the hard things in life. I enjoy nature, I like walking in the wilds, mountain biking, quiet cafes, and art. I like driving at night, classic french cinema, and trying to fix philosophical paradox - strange but true I am quite demanding in some ways but giving in other ways. I like small talk in the context of deeper meaning. I like banter and games, I am quite funny, but I am also serious and straight forward. I am blessed with a kind and generous soul. I am a bit of loner at heart but not unsociable - I prefer one to one, not a crowd. Seeking similar or sympathetic contrast. I value intellect and emotional maturity, and a balanced ego. I both need and offer a safe space in which to unwind, to feel safe, to be valued, to build a life together...