About HappyandContented
HappyandContented is widowed and is seeking males for a serious relationship.
Please note that I will not respond to under 65s, or rude messages. Photos with drinking, no shirts are a turn off, and will need something else to encourage me to respond.
Caring, contented and cultured. Try to treat others as I want to be treated, enjoy the sheer pleasure when things do go right. Generous and kind hearted. Practical, would rather make it than buy it.
What do you like most about where you currently live?
The splash of tidal waves over the seawall, the sound and feel of thrusters on a new boat retuning to harbour, the comforting sound of a big engine bringing a crew in, the warmth of the people in the village, this is truly a home place.
What do you enjoy most about your current job?
Helping people achieve what they are trying to do, problem solving, giving a hand where I can.
What are your favourite leisure activities?
I am a crafter, and love making useful items from rubbish. Lightshades, stained glass, wood working, tile work, just a few of my projects.
Also enjoy music. Tried several times to play, but can't carry a tune in a tin bucket, timing is all off, but happy to just listen
What are you looking for in a partner?
I am looking for a handsome man that is a pleasure to wake up to and smile. A man who can carry a conversation and is tolerant of different ideas, cultures, and methods. An out of the box thinker.
I enjoy calculated risk taking, and would hope a partner would help with calculations...
What makes a good relationship?
Honesty, dedication, tolerance, and above all realization that relationships require attention.
What makes you laugh?
Life makes me laugh. It fixes so much. Genuine laughter does not hurt others, it says that I want to share with you.
What music do you like?
Wide ranging, classical, world, ethnic, peaceful and heartfelt. Don't like much music from decades, it did not sound right then, and not very often does it sound good now.
What has been the highlight of your life so far?
I regret very little of my past. I am me and I have made a difference.
What factors or issues would be a deal breaker for you?
Alcohol has cause immense distress, I have been very much affected by alcohol abuse by my husband. He died of cancer caused by alcohol. I believe that the drunk is not honest. In moderation is OK, but it worries me.
I am allergic to cigarette smoke, and hydro carbon smoke.
I don't intend relocating. I love my village.
Appearance
- Hair Wasn't listed as an option
- Eyes Hazel
- Height 5' 4" / 163cm
- Weight I'd rather not say
- Body type Large
- Glasses Yes
- Ethnicity White
- DisabledNo
Politics
- Stance No Interest
Qualifications
- Qualifications a masters
Employment
- Situation Retired
- Sector Charity / Voluntary
- Income less than £10,000
Lifestyle
- Alcohol Don't Drink
- Smoking Non-smoker
- Diet No Special Diet
- Religion Wasn't listed as an option, and I sometimes practice my religion
- Interests
animals and arts and DIY and
music—listening and photography
Children
- Have Yes (living at home)
- Want I don't want to have more children
Housing
- Home I own my home
- Live With Wasn't listed as an option