About Fumingseal

Fumingseal is widowed and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

I lost my husband of 24 years (together for 26) unexpectedly last year so this is all very new to me.
I'm an introvert, quiet in big social situations, but when I'm comfortable around people I will open up and you'll find I'm open minded, caring, accepting of others with a great sense of humour (sometimes a little crude.) Deep down I'm a big kid - put me in a room with soft, cuddly animals and you'll see the biggest smile.

I'm not perfect, I come with baggage, emotional scars; but everyday I get up and face those demons. (I suppose I shouldn't put this part in as aren't we supposed to be "selling" ourselves and pretending life is all unicorns & rainbows? But I believe in honesty and if the truth puts you off - then so be it.)

I'm looking to build something by going slow and getting to know each other all I ask is that you have emotional awareness and can communicate even when things feel uncomfortable and tough, be consistent - I don't expect your undivided attention but I'm not prepared to be there only when it's convenient and that you know what you're looking for in a relationship/life - bonus points if your ducks are in a row and mostly behaving!!

PS if it's nude pictures you're after - then I'm not the one for you!
PPS no I'm not going to give you money so that you can show me how to invest and make a profit/ help your sick mother
PPPs no I'm not going to be your booty call in the middle of the night