About Em53

Em53 is single and is seeking males for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

Well back here for round 2.
After potentially matching with someone before christmas and communicating regulary, still communicating after a RTA , it seems hes now lost interest , without even the decency to say "Goodbye" , it seems ghosted is the new thing men do now before they dissappear.
TRUST, POLITNESS AND HONESTY is not alot to ask for.
Please dont engage in deep meaningful conversation if there is no sincere intentions.

Please also note , if we have spoken before then there is not much point in messaging me again. Although might be worth the laugh if nothing else.

TBC
When I have more time to add to this.

Why am I here ? Asside the above !

Recently out of a long term casual relationship (9 years).
Why it ended ? I am still wondering that one myself. Mad to end a sure thing.

Prior to that 10 years with a narcasist. Put me 10 feet under but I survived!

Prior to that married and widdowed. ( He was the good one!)

I am tired , tired of believing false truths and giving my all to be unappreciated.

So , dare I try again , what do I want/need?

I guess if I had to make a choice it would be similar to the 9 year casual , but way more solid.

Someone who appreciates the entirity of the package and not just what they want to gain until they get bored and walk away.

Some of us out there give you our all.
That should not be treated with kid gloves in any instance.

No one should take advantage of a good thing or throw it to the curb for no reason.

No one should mess with peoples hearts and emotions.

Enter into something for the duration then be man enough to stay through the hard times!.

Do you value life?
Do you know what you actually want?
Do you treat women with respect ?
Are you adventerous ?
Do you like deep meaningful conversations ?
Do you like spontanious get up and go trips?
Do you drive or ride ?
Do you own your own home?
Do you have a Job?
Do you care for elements of attraction other than looks ?

Have you forfilled all your sexual fantasies and desires and ready to be in the realist club ? ( Text sex is for keyboard warriors and there is plenty of them on this site!) (Playing around with other women and not being exclusive is a very huge weakness).

If "No" to any of the above questions , please save 5 mins of your time and do not message me.
If I dont reply to you , dont take it personally , there is just no match.
Please dont then keep looking at my profile like some desperate being and send more winks.

Winks should be banned. And I will start to love the block button.

Thats a wrap ...
Hopefully that has answered many of your questions and I wont be coming back tomorrow with a mailbox full of winks and pointless comments.

To the genuine guys I have already spoken to , dissregard the necessary above and Ty for your kind words and wish you all the very best.

And if you made it this far...
Are you really going to message me after reading all that? Lol