About Benbear

Benbear is divorced and is seeking females for a serious relationship.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Quiet near town has a nice vibe

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

The buck stops with me as it’s my business . And my clients believe in me , which can be wonderful but also create pressure to deliver

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Music film the big out doors

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Cuba Italy Barcelona

Where in the world would you love to visit?

Vietnam Cambodia All of Africa:)

What would you do on an ideal date?

Talk and connect so much time stands still

What are you looking for in a partner?

Some one that excepts me for me with all my pluses and minuses . None of us are perfect

What makes a good relationship?

Seeing the big picture being honest excepting each other’s differences, laughing and making each other giggle and trusting enough to give each other space to be them selves

What makes you laugh?

Life !how stupid I can be !!! Friends family and people watching :)

What music do you like?

As I’m a musician I love all music played well

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Watching my children grow up to be amazing human beings and love how different thay all are

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Seeing my children for fill their dreams and be happy .
And personally be wonderful to share my life with someone

Why am I doing this ?

Maybe because I’m worried that I’m going to be alone , and my confidence has dissipated I feel I have a lot mentally to offer and so much love to give ( to the right woman) and have lots of giggles and smiles along the way