About Apricot

Apricot is single and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

I can't stand wokeness nor smoking. I like metal, rock and dance music. I exercise weekly.

No "Hi" messages

Sorry, my age is wrong. I dislike scammers, etc. Ask for it, if I'd consider friendship, dating, etc with you

I lived in Birmingham for years. I wasn't completely happy with it

I like shoegaze, post punk, punk rock, house, psychedelic, drum n bass, grunge... music. I save my head hair & wig make using it. I go clubbing & am at gigs. I like festivals, camping & the countryside. It's satisfying walking with music playing. I'm likely to have music on for hours every day whilst I'm doing housework, etc. I play guitar, play bass & sing. I guess I'm the rare contralto. I was in a choir over years. I like console games. I love travelling. I like sewing by hand. I have a fascination for maps, flags & adding things up

I have a high fat, low carb diet for my health. I jog, stretch, etc. I refused the covid jab. I don't believe praying, reiki, etc are going to cure you of problems. Deficiencies can cause mental & physical health problems. I squat on toilets & use an item (likely a bowl) to urinate in to see the colour of my urine. I request blood tests for B12, etc. I'm prone to OCD (because of concern over losing items & mistakes with text, etc) if I've a lack of sleep, etc. I take Omega 3, B12, K2 & vitamin D supplements. I consume kelp powder for iodine. I usually wash with just water. I think products (eg shower gel) are unhealthy. I'm not autistic. I haven't normally felt depressed in years.

I support VHEMT. The more people, the more floods, children suffering, etc. I want to avoid adopting companion animals & kids.There are enough people to socialise with. I wouldn't like the cost of animals, as well as the smells, damage, someone looking after them whilst being at my home whilst I'm away, etc. I love cats, otherwise I'm not much of an animal lover.

I get stressed over smoke from scented sticks, cigarettes, etc & air fresheners. People would smoke outside, but smell strong once inside. People wasting water, leaving lights on when not needed, etc bugs me. I'd use a cup for a drink again without washing it, I'd rather use a piece of an envelope for making notes than use paper from a notebook, etc.

I want to improve housing so support Shelter. I did some work for Shelter.

I'm not politically correct. You can't please everyone. How about find out how someone wants to be treated e.g what jokes they are fine with, what pronouns they want used for themselves, etc?

I wear make up for parties & clubs. I don't wear high heels, false eyelashes & all my face skin with foundation. I dress new wave, indie & mainly black. I have medium with short hair. Likely I'll grow my hair long again. I aim to keep it dark brown. I'm not very curvy. I've small boobs. I'm a cis gender female. I'm not interested in having a sex change. I don't like to have really long hand nails. Likely I'll have them quite short

I've haven't studied at a university. I was on music, comedy, art, etc courses. I want to act again. My favourite career would be performing as a musician & I'm up for comedy including doing stand up with someone else, so if anyone's interested in working with me... I worked unpaid & paid in shops including in 2026. I did gardening work, life drawing modelling, etc

I'm talkative & witty. My accent might sound a little West Country to some people.

I think there could be a god

I'm not against naturism, but it's not for me. I can't even stand a partner walking around their home naked in front of me.

I'm not homophobic, a paedophile nor a white supremacist. Maybe some people thought I was those. I sympathise with trans people, but I'm not keen on the education about it to kids putting it in their minds unless it is brought up by them. I'm fine with transvestites & their gigs and really had a bond with a transvestite. I want good housing, health care, etc for all races even though I want to live in a completely or mainly white area likely because of what I was used to from a child to adult. I'm happy to have non whites as friends.

I was sexually attracted to a woman from Big Brother, but I think I'm straight.

My pronouns are them & their, but I'm not non binary. It's just preference, & using "they" to refer to someone is proper use of the English language. Maybe you wouldn't think so by peoples' negativity.

I'm fine with immigration but It's gone too far for my liking in the UK. I can't choose to accept or like something, just like you don't choose your food dislikes, sexuality, etc. You can try to do the right thing though. I love patriotism & country related flags being flown in countries. Let's see the Union Jack & St George's Cross in England

I'm sexually attracted to Ryan Adams when performing She's Lost Total Control on the Jools Holland programme. Also Jerry Cantrell facial hair free in his 90s days. I'm sexually attracted to band t shirts; skinny jeans; rectangular, slim built, very slim, not very muscular looking body types; music obsession; dark brown & blonde head hair; shyness & humour (including kid like & like Burt Backarackhams)

For considering dating me: be 30s to 50s, like snogging, be white, be a cis gender male, be talkative, be witty & be monogamous. I might consider a bisexual person. I refuse to participate in scat, being slapped & a*nal s**. I'd consider marriage but I must live separately to my husband. If you were born outside the UK but have certain family who were born in the UK & live there, it's fine to date me. I generally wouldn't date someone who was born outside the UK. I'd like more vegans for friendship & musicians to work with. I don't want someone just for chat nor text; I can use Facebook groups, etc for text. I've had a man trying to fit me in their life between my periods & maybe having a problem with me using a washable mooncup. I refuse to only spend time with people when I don't have periods. I don't even know when they're going to start & end anyway. I don't mind sitting on a plastic bag, not sharing a bed during a heavy period, etc. I prefer to sleep separately anyway though. I request some days with no contact from a partner & friends which isn't because of depression. I love company, but I love my own company too. Don't contact me for s*x, nor a secret relationship; although I like some privacy. No pretending you're after a relationship, but are just after s*x by stating you'll watch a film or have a long chat after s*x. I want to be able to spend time with a partner over days without it.

I dislike "Hi", "morning", "what U up to"... messages & hate being asked how I am. "How was the gig?" is fine. All adults may make the odd spelling & grammar mistake; but please don't contact me if your spelling, English speaking & grammar are awful. Check your messages before sending them. Strangers, state what you're after from ME, not what you're after otherwise don't expect a response from me. If you just want to state something, just use for example "I'm just contacting you to let you know I love the hairstyle on your profile". An example of what to state if you're considering a particular relationship with me is "I'm contacting you as I'm considering you for friendship" instead of "I'm after friendship". I won't respond to "I'm contacting you to get to know you"

No ghosting. It hurts if people block, etc rather than using polite "No to dating you", "I won't be friends with you as I'd like someone closer to me", etc