About And4me

And4me is widowed and is seeking females for a serious relationship.

I've been lambasted and insulted for not uploading a photo and length of my profile. There is nothing as stupid and bigoted as an instant gratification feminist.

If you immediately demand an explanation for no photo and don't consider the fact that the internet is FOREVER you don't possess the critical thinking skills worthy of a reply. I take no modern feminist bullshit so if that's you stop right here. I will treat you like a princess when you show me your official printed Royal seal. If you can't say what you bring to enhance my life other than you are the table then don't bother messaging. To those of you that think your looks define you, think again. Let's face it, most of you are lost causes wrapped in the lies of modern feminism which for a good portion of you is why you're here. If you bring along 3 kids grown up or not then maybe your value isn't what you think it is. If you disturb my peace or show disrespect I will reject you instantly. All to often women take nice guys for weak men, massive mistake. I am nobody's simp or utility. I will not compromise my peace for you or anyone. I will never argue with you, I'll simply walk away. End of story take it or leave it, I don't care either way. I'm not here to play games and giving this one last try to find an actual woman and not a child in a 50+ year old body. If you think you have what it takes to be with an actual man then don't be shy or entitled and try me. You might be pleasantly surprised. Privacy is not a crime and I'm hiding from no one.Pic available to a real woman as and when appropriate.

Men don't care about your looks, bank balance, qualifications or independence but none of you seem to get it. Men deal in cold hard reality and facts. I don't dream of meeting my "soulmate" because I live in the real world. Men are not women in trousers. Someone who knows the value of respect will always be treated with such. If you can't cook...LEARN ! If you can't change a tyre...that's what a man will do for you when you treat him with respect 😉

I've been advised that my profile isn't very inviting. I'm fully red pilled and see straight through the toxicity of modern feminists. What else can I say ? Other than I will meet anyone halfway on actual equal terms. I know my worth and won't inflate it to look good on TikTok or Instagram. You ask where have all the good men gone with no sense of irony or consequence. Now that's funny 🤣

All this said, Iḿ told Iḿ funny, sociable and loyal. I see passed the superficial and interested in a long term relationship built from proper foundations of trust and respect. I know how to treat a lady when I find one.

I won't be friend zoned. Not here to play feminist games. If you show no real interest...bye. I've blocked twice as many women than ever there is online due to their arrogance and expectation.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Femininity, actual awareness of themselves.

What makes a good relationship?

Give and take with actual balance

What music do you like?

Modern classical, eclectic mix

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Peace, preferably with someone but alone is also fine.