About 80sDave

80sDave is single and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

I'm a great listener and conversationalist.
I'm creative and imaginative.
I'm an amateur musician,I write music and sing.
An all round 'good egg',...(if slightly scrambled.)
If you,..
Wake every morning feeling like you're in a nightmare parallel world.
Agonize over the injustice and suffering of innocents on an empathic level.
Lay awake at night with a tune or song idea in your head and HAVE to get up to write it down.
Wish for the best but prepare for the worst.
Burst into tears at the footage of Lady Dis funeral.
Still tear up at the sight of David Bowie or Freddie Mercury performing.
Think that 80s music was the greatest until 1986.
Think that Star Wars 7, 8 & 9 killed your expectations BUT the Mandalorian has saved what was best BEFORE.
If you thought Game Of Thrones was ultimately AWESOME.
I might be the kind of guy you'd click with.

Must have Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness.

What do I look for in a partner? I don't have a specific type. It's more what goes on in the heart, between the ears and how empathic a woman is. Ideally, I'd like to meet a younger woman than myself who is funny, quirky maybe even Geeky. Someone with a mischievous smile and a sunny, laid back disposition, Someone who is a little bossy but NOT Aggressively so, Someone who doesn't take themself too seriously and is happy in their own skin. Someone who will be happy doing their own thing on occasion as I would. Someone who is NOT Judgemental and understands Autism. Someone who would be happy to spend an evening just talking or cuddling and binging on a box-set and a Chinese Takeaway.

On the first date? Given the Covid Situation, I haven't given 'Dating' a lot of thought.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

It's all ground floor.
It's mostly very quiet.
It's in a green, wooded region of Greater London.
Large variations of birds and wildlife.
I'm very local for my family.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I'm ASD long term disabled with 2 types of Arthritis so I cannot work.
If I have to try to walk a distance, I use crutches.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

My Cats.
Boxsets.
Social Media.
Music Making.
Movie Editing.
Sci Fi, Fantasy, Sword & Sorcery Movies.
Bird watching.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

St James's Park.
Greenwich Park.
The slow ferry ride from Greenwich to Westminster.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

I'd love to visit Japan, Thailand, Cuba or Sweden but not likely in my lifetime.
I have relatives in Norway too.
Saying this, the furthest I've been abroad is the Isle Of Wight and Wales.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Hardly likely to happen due to the current Covid situation but mostly I'd let my date choose Just so long as it's not too far off.

What are you looking for in a partner?

I don't have a specific, body type, skin colour or cultural background preference.
I love women who are wise, deep, tactile, tranquil and conversely passionate.
I love women who are bubbly, giggly, cuddly and patient.
Women who can be 'nerdy' and are happy being with a 'nerd'
Musical ability would be a plus along with a generally creative nature.
Saying that, I like Bossy women too but NOT bullyingly Bossy.
NOT looking for Tories or Right wingers.
No Manipulators or Bullies.

What makes a good relationship?

TRUST!
Being able to laugh together at the same things, feel the same about life in general, being as comfortable together as being apart. To be comfortable in your own skin around your partner.
Being able to look into your partners eyes and mutually know what's being said silently.
Not causing each other pain or manipulating each other. I'm SURE there's more but I've got so much to fill in and I dislike long forms.

What makes you laugh?

General observational comedy.
Situation Comedy.
Cruel Sarcasm.
Old laughs are Only Fools And Horses, Alf Garnet, Dads Army, On The Buses, Carry On, Monty Python, Spike Milligan, Dick Emery, ANYTHING with James Robertson Justice or Terry Thomas, Peter Sellers,The Young Ones, Ben Elton, Harry Enfield, Drop The Dead Donkey, Brittas Empire, Mrs Browns Boys, Red Dwarf, Hyperdrive.
New laughs, The Cleveland Show, American Dad and Family Guy, Crossing Swords, Archer, My Name Is Earl, IT Crowd, Spaced, Zomboat, Zapped, 2 Pints Of Lager and a packet of Crisps, Gimme Gimme, Ab Fab, Mighty Boosh, League Of Gentlemen, Game On,(Series ONE),Father Ted, Al Murray.

What music do you like?

Mostly 80s Synth and New Wave but ONLY up until early 1987. British Music started to ROT with Stock, Aitken and Waterman and never recovered. When I compose, it's in 80s style.
Early loves are, Roxy Music, David Bowie, T-Rex, Cockney Rebel, Queen, Vangelis, Jean Michel Jarre. Chic, Meatloaf.
80s heroes are Duran Duran, Spandau Ballet, Simple Minds, Visage, Heaven 17, Human League, Japan, Alphaville, A Flock Of Seagulls, Ultravox, Yazoo, Depeche Mode, Gary Numan, Talk Talk, Bronski Beat, Adam & The Ants,
NEW Heroes, The Verve, Robbie Williams (first album), Oasis, Pulp, Evanescence, Electric Six, Marilyn Manson, Lady GaGa.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Not having dropped dead despite being ill from the 24th Jan 2020 for 6 weeks with 'A very bad COUGH'.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Winning the Lottery or getting anonymously famous through online means, Just have to take it a day at a time in the current chaos that is our little plague ridden nation.