About Womanfortherightone

Womanfortherightone is divorced and is seeking males for friendship.

The higher the IQ of a woman, the less likely she is interested in sex as the main content of a relationship. This does not mean that she does not desire passion, intimacy or physical attraction. Quite the opposite. Only gradually will he understand that the chemistry between two people is not enough for them to be able to really live together.
Such a woman is often looking for something that cannot be bought, forced or replaced by good looks or a few nights spent together. He is looking for a deeper connection. A man who can impress her not only with his body, but above all with what's in his head. Someone with whom he can have long conversations about life, the universe, psychology, relationships, dreams and the absolute little things.
She wants a man who has his own opinions, thinks about things, can listen and is not afraid of topics that are not always simple. They don't have to agree on everything. Sometimes it is even more interesting when two people have a different view of the world, but can discuss with each other without insults and the need to defeat each other.
At the same time, he needs emotional closeness. The feeling that she doesn't have to constantly pretend, play the perfect woman or hide her weaknesses. That she can be herself. That she has a person next to her who won't leave her at the first complication, won't disappear when problems come, and won't judge her value only by her looks or what she can offer him.
Of course, he also wants physical attractiveness. He wants kisses, touches, passion, intimacy and mutual desire. But he needs it all to have a deeper meaning. For a man to touch her not only because he wants sex, but also because he misses her closeness. So that a hug is not automatically an invitation to the bedroom, but an ordinary expression of love.
I think that the combination of physical, mental and emotional connection is the basis of a really strong relationship. Because physical attractiveness can change over time. The appearance ages, the body changes and life brings a period when sex does not have to be in the first place. But when two people still have something to say, can inspire each other, make each other laugh, hold each other and look forward to the time spent together, they have something much more valuable.
And maybe that's why some women prefer to stay alone than to be with someone with whom they have physical chemistry, but feel empty inside.
They don't want only men in bed. They want a life partner. A person with whom they can fall asleep at night, wake up in the morning, plan the future, overcome difficult times and even after twenty years sit next to each other over coffee and still have something to say.
Because the greatest intimacy is not always taking off your clothes in front of someone. Sometimes it's much harder to take off our defenses, show our true self and allow the other to know who we really are. And yet he stayed.