About Viver

Viver is single and is seeking females for friendship or a serious relationship.

First thing you should know is that Im trans (my pronouns are she/her), im very much a work in progress and alot of that is waiting and doing what i can while i wait for bureaucracy to catch up, im still working on being fully out socially but this is hampered by my shyness much of the time. If this is an issue you can stop reading.

Second thing you should know is that I try to be bluntly honest with people whenever i can be and feel safe to do so. And i expect the same back. So ask me honest questions and get honest answers.

So now for some word salad about me

Im quite geeky, Im an application developer for a living and enjoy things like rpgs, board games and watching or reading sci fi and fantasy genres. Ive a softspot for romance and time travel. I also can be very wordy when I get going but also know how to listen!

Im 5 foot 13 inches tall and have an eclectic taste in clothing and just about everything else (music/films/books etc), my humour is just as weird but its always good natured and often self depreciating.

Im looking for someone who will get me and who I will get! Honesty and an open mind is important. Im 99.9% sure im only attracted to women and fem leaning people (and perhaps Ryan Gossling as an exception that proves the rule) and if they cant see me as a woman then thats a huge deal breaker for me.

I have a very little experience in dating since realising im trans and its still finding new ground for me so patience and understanding matter alot. Im not interested currently in a poly relationship (it seems to come up alot). But im quite open minded with regards to everything else.

If you read this far and are still interested id love to start chatting! (Just please be more creative then "hi"!)

What do you like most about where you currently live?

Its remote without being remote. A village near a town but easy to drive away from!

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

Its interesting, hard work but varied. Developing and supporting tools that make the company work

What are you looking for in a partner?

Im looking for a kind and patient person who has humor and inteligence.

Whats one thing a partner should know about you?

Im Trans and my pronouns are she/her. Im still working on being myself and this can mean sometimes im a bit awkward or shy, it means i value patoence and understanding!