About SimSam

SimSam is divorced and is seeking males for friendship or a serious relationship.

After divorcing 14 years ago and taking time to raise my two daughters I am now ready to start dating. I am on a journey learning about myself as a mature working woman.

My preference is chatting with gentlemen in my age group, aged between 57 to 66 who lives in and around London, with a view to developing a friendships. This may hopefully lead to a more with the right person as the friendship deepens and contains humour, warmth and a solid ‘connection’.

I’m not looking for a bit of fun, excitement or distraction. I want something more meaningful and lasting while we (hopefully) have the time and good health to enjoy it.

I am drawn to people who are polite, kind and grounded as I am the same. I need more laughter in my life than I currently have. I am glass half empty type of person. I am looking forward to travelling more, both within the UK and more widely. I find quiet self-confidence attractive, with a relaxed can do attitude to life.

While I am open to trying new things, I may require convincing to try something new, which I will endeavour to do!

I work in the public sector in a customer services policy/operational delivery role. No two days are the same, although it can be routine, but that suites me just fine.

Clear and honest communication especially around differences, preferences and expectations is important expected. I have little patience for unfairness, rudeness, lies and injustice.

Looking ahead, I would like to be a committed, mutually supportive, fun, caring long term relationship.