About SeanLdn

SeanLdn is single and is seeking females for a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

Hi. I guess I am 'too honest'. Unfiltered in some ways, and very repressed in other ways. I am a long-term hermit who is looking for a kiss and cuddle with a woman who actually wants me in her bed. I love kissing, and I give massages that make toes curl. Some full body contact would be nice.

I want intimacy, without all the forced socialisation and layers of ice-breaking. I'm likely autistic, so I hate all the tension and uncertainty. Socially anxious. Sexually anxious. Make it easy, please. Be as direct as you can.

I am unable to live a 'normal' life, so meeting women is almost impossible. Socialising is difficult and too costly for me. I'm basically a recluse. For a man who gets matches, I've had very little sex. Either nothing, or ghosted.

Any age is fine, but I would much prefer that you accom, as my place is not suitable (I had a woman walk out over it - Never again). Am looking for genuine interest, attraction and some overnights in the London area (unless you're paying for shipping and an overnight stay, lol). Daytimes are fine as well.

I lost several good chances to meet willing ladies this year, because I am nuts and I always screw up the talking stage, even when they are supposedly fully on board. I say the wrong thing and get blocked. Or they say they want me, then never respond again. One chance came back, but she wanted to do it outside (no way!). Another spoke to me for two days and ghosted before we were to meet (she's back with a new account now - Hello, if you read this). Another one was a widow of ten years, but she was too busy to ever set a meeting. Then one I got to meet, but she walked out over not liking my home, even though I gave her fair warning that it wasn't ideal. Also had another one tell me she was 'ready', in not so many words, yet she rejected two offers to meet up publicly.

God, I feel so cursed. I have the worst luck with women. Tends to be 48 hours of torture, then an awful let-down. The irony is that I could have been 'cured' of some of my neuroses, had one actually hung in there and f'd some sense into me. It seems that this problem has become common in men these days. Guys who are stuck on 'low mileage' and lack opportunity go insane. Let's not waste time.

It appears that those 'mutual matches' are broken, so I'm not using that function anymore and I have turned those e-mails off. Had a bunch of likes, but they never viewed my profile, so I couldn't know who they were. Unless you're actually showing up in my inbox telling me you're interested in me, and wanting to meet, I can't continue from there.

Just message me if you are local, please. Please have photos. It's ridiculous how difficult and complicated that meeting people has become. Hello to the far-away ladies who have viewed my profile. I don't like to bother people, so I don't message first.

Thanks for reading.