About LookingforLTR

LookingforLTR is single and is seeking females for a serious relationship.

Like everyone here, I’m looking for the right person. I know not to get my hopes up as there are a lot of unserious people – I’ve talked to a lot of them. Sound great in messaging and then nothing other than ghosting – but I hold out hope that the right woman is here somewhere.

First and foremost, I am looking for a serious, long-term relationship. I want children and marriage amd a family more than anything. It's what I've been looking for my whole life and after a few false starts, it's something I'm determined to find. If you're reading this then it's important to know that I don’t care about looks, body size or type, race or anything like that. I care about finding a nice, kind, honest and loving person who wants me and wants to be with me. Someone who supports my dreams and can handle a person's needs.

I am very nice, loyal, kind and have a good sense of humour. I also love romance. Stuff such as public displays of affection, hand holding, kissing, long romantic walks are a must for me even though I know some people don't like them. I've had a relationship where I was treated and felt like a stranger in my own relationship. Where I wasn't valued and was rarely shown love. It was a relationship in which I was mentally abused in various ways for many years. Now I long to find someone loving and not afraid to show it.

I’m a huge wrestling fanatic so it would be great to find someone to take to shows and watch it with. I’m also a lover of science fiction, superhero shtick, and fantasy such as Lord of the Rings.

Last but not least, my biggest pet peeve. Now, let’s all be realistic here. We’re all here for the same thing. To meet that perfect person we can spend our lives with. Yet, I have met some shallow people on dating sites and they fall into two catagories:

1) The type of people who laugh at your picture or are adamant they are only looking bodybuilders or rich men or someone who has fallen from the pages of a modelling magazine. Whilst I’m sure there are a few of them here, if that’s what you’ve convinced yourself you’re going to get then check your ego and face reality. You’re not going to find Brad Pitt or Elon Musk here. Sadly, too many people don’t see how amazing those dubbed ‘ordinary’ are. I’m an ordinary person with a lot of everything to give.

2) Those who won't even consider long distance relationships and are set on only dating people from their own area. If you've been looking for a long time and found nothing, then that's an indication that there's no one. If you don't look outside your box you're cutting yourself off from 99.9% of everyone and truly wonderful people. There's a reason these people have never found anyone yet. If they're too small minded to look afar for what they want or too lazy to put the effort into a long distance relationship, then sadly they'll be alone for a long time. Long distance works as long as both are willing to put in the effort.

So let's start giving people a chance or we'll be here longer than we like. With that said, I know the snowflakes will take offence to this but I don’t really care. If you think I’m wrong then carry on doing what you’re doing. But just bear in mind that history repeats itself for those who do not learn from it.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I love to walk (looking for someone for romantic walks), read and write which is my main hobby. I have been writing since I was 16 and in the past few years have self-published two books. It is a dream of mine to be a writer. Away from that, I like to game a little and I am a fan of comedies.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

While I have never travelled outside the United Kingdom, some of my favourite places in the UK are Manchester and anywhere that has a seaside. I love to be near the sea. One of my favourite places to visit is Hemsby Beach.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

The Caribbean. There's something about it that looks so hot and peaceful.

What would you do on an ideal date?

I'm generally easy but do like something fun and non-pressure that both people can enjoy. Something that helps relax and ease the nerves. My ideal date would probably be walking around somewhere fun and just getting to know each other.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Loyalty and trust are a must. Thanks to past experiences I am not willing to be betrayed again or endure the pain that comes with it. It would be advantageous of you wanted children too. It's my dream to be a father and have a family. Apart from that, someone funny, kind, caring, and likes to cuddle on the sofa as much as go on exciting days out.

What makes a good relationship?

As my previous answer states, love and trust. There's no relationship if you don't trust the other person. However, there's no better feeling that trusting the person you're with. Also talking. Too many relationships don't have conversation in them and that leads to problems.

What makes you laugh?

Jokes. Real, no holds barred jokes and old school comedians. I also laugh every time at things like Inside No.9, Ricky Gervais, Karl Pilkington, things that seem innocent but are funny in an odd way. I'm also a huge stand-up comedian fan.

What music do you like?

I'm an oddity in that I don't really listen to music often. I'll hear a tune I like now and again, but really I'm a S-Club 7 kind of guy.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Being in love. I know it's something many will role their eyes at but I was in love before it all ended - which is why I find myself back on the trail - but that's the truth. There's no greater feeling.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Being a father, a husband, having someone to love that loves me back equally. Hopefully being a writer and writing things that make people fall in love with stories.

What's your favourite television show?

Doctor Who. I know I sound like a bit of a geek but it's the show that made me fall in love with writing and want to tell stories. I've been a fan for decades now and never been as inspired as I was when it returned in 2005.

WWE is also up there. I've been a lifelong wrestling fan and continue to indulge in my love of it.