About LookingforLTR

LookingforLTR is single and is seeking females for a serious relationship.

My name is Matt, nice to meet you, and I have been on this site for a while now – on and off – and met some genuinely fantastic people who were a hundred percent serious. Sadly, they either didn’t want what I did, or life got in the way, and they couldn’t give or have what we both wanted. So now it’s time to knuckle down and find that one person who really wants what I want and is ready to give a hundred percent to a relationship. Below, you will find everything you need to know about me and what I’m looking for. If you are serious then do read on. I don’t mind being contacted if you don’t read the whole thing, but there might be things there you don’t like or agree with. Everyone is different and likes and wants different things.

*About Me*

I am a very nice person who needs a nice and loving person in return. I love and need romance and kindness and if that comes with a deeper connection then that would be great too. It’s all a little boring if you don’t share a genuine connection and doesn’t tend to last. I adore cuddles in the morning to start the day and at night to end it. I love holding hands and kissing anywhere. I’m an intimate and passionate person who longs for someone the same. But I can have a naughty side to me too.

Physically I am five foot eleven and have a dad bod. Sorry for all those looking for a ripped, shredded bodybuilder of a man. You won’t get that here. But then if that is all you’re looking for then you’re not for me anyway and you’re really not going to get far. Sorry to disappoint you. You're not finding Brad Pitt or a multi-millionaire here. Most of us are just normal and that's amazing in itself. There’s a hell of a lot of love and fun in me and I prefer to look beyond appearance. They say don’t judge a book by its cover. There are some fantastic stories when you actually begin to flick through the pages but sadly a lot of them never get read because there doesn’t seem to be a whole lot of people who are willing to give anyone a chance. I am also bald with a bit of a beard. So, if that’s your thing then we might just get on.

I love a variety of different things. I love to walk and write. I’m a casual gamer depending on the genre. I also like to read a variety of things such as comic books and novels. I am currently working my way through Lord of the Rings. I love television, movies, going to the cinema and theatre but I’m not much of a partier. I prefer to be cuddled up on the sofa rather than out raving and drinking. As for my taste in things, I suppose you could say I’m a bit of a geek. I love science fiction, pre-2017 Doctor Who before they ruined it completely, and I’m a huge wrestling fan and have been for 35 years.

I am not really political, but I suppose you could say I have strong views on things I care about. I’m anti-woke and think the world today has gone mental and cancel culture is a cancer. I say what I think even if people don’t agree with it and can’t stand people who jump on bandwagons just to look good in front of other people or think how woke society believes they should if they don’t really believe it. Freedom of speech is everything. If you don’t like or agree with something then say it. Don’t be a sheep and follow the herd.

I have been in a long-term relationship in the past where I was lied to and cheated on and wasn’t treated very well at all. I want to make up for everything that I missed during that time. It made me a huge advocate for men’s mental health which I don’t think is talked about or exhibited nearly enough. Men should be able to cry in front of their partner or talk about their emotions and how they feel without the small-minded thinking it weak. It’s not. It takes guts and courage for a man to cry or open up about something that’s hurting them and that should be applauded.

What else can I tell you about myself that I haven't already said? My celebrity crushes are Taylor Swift and Hilary Duff. Not because of the way they look, strangely, though I do find them very beautiful. But because there's something kind and caring and romantic and homely about them. They look like they could give you a hell of a cuddle if you were feeling down. Something I need from time to time. I'll add a little disclaimer for anyone reading this. If you've got this far then don't think you have to look like Taylor Swift or Hilary Duff. I don't care what you look like. I love bigger women as much as smaller women. It's what inside I care about. It would be nice, however, if you possessed that level of romance I mentioned. I've never had that before and I yearn for it.

I am an old romantic. I do love a nice romantic cuddle and kissing. Having lazy days in bed with each other. Cuddling, talking, being in each other's arms and spending time together in the most intimate and romantic way. Touching foreheads as we kiss. Our noses brushing against each other. Just having that primal, raw, emotion of being with the person.

*What I’m looking for:*

I’m looking for and would love to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I want to be in love and be loved in return. I do not want someone who will cheat or knows they are likely to. I’ve had that before and have more self-respect than to tolerate someone disrespectful. I want to be a father so need someone who also wants to have children. I know there aren’t many people on this site who want that, but I’ve always wanted to be a father and that is non-negotiable. It’s my life’s goal to have children.

*What I Do NOT Want:*

What I’m about to say will put some people off. I have had several messages over the years saying that my tone is harsh. But I believe in being honest up front whether that puts you off or not. There’s no point being all coy now and wasting time with the wrong people.

I’m not looking for shallow people who only care about money and looks. I am not looking for game players or people who reply to three messages and then ghost you for no reason at all. For example, I recently talked to someone who complained to me that she couldn’t find anyone serious and was on the verge of giving up. We got on well. We talked and agreed we wanted the same thing. Then she ghosted me for no reason. That’s just plain disgusting and immature behaviour. I have never done that to anyone and do not expect it from anyone else. Also don't be shallow and block someone just because they sent you a nice message. Do you even realise how that makes you look? I know most people here are decent but it only takes the few to cast a dim light.

I am not looking for liars. Someone who says they’re x, y, and z but then turns out to be not what they say. If you say you want something on your profile or in your messages, then you turn in the opposite direction when it’s offered to you, then that says more about you than words ever could.

There is also no need to be nasty to someone. Do not send me messages saying, ‘I’ve read your profile and can see why your ex was awful to you.’ Just because I’m honest and straight to the point. Just because I don’t tolerate rubbish from people who like to play with lives of others doesn’t mean I deserved to be hurt and doesn’t mean I deserve messages from genuinely pathetic people. There’s a problem with snowflakes today who can’t deal with people who say what they think and who have different outlooks and opinions than them.

I also don’t like greedy or small-minded people. There's some here that are married, not looking to change that, and still want someone else. Just awful. Or a lot of people not willing to look outside the bubble of their own city for someone when they've found no one in years. If you refuse to look further afield then don't be surprised when you find yourself alone. Because that unwillingness is costing you someone amazing elsewhere. Long distance relationships can be hard, but if you both put in the effort then you might just find the person you're looking for. I know because I’ve had one.

*Summary:*

In conclusion, and if you’ve read this far then you might be the one I’m looking for, I’m a nice, kind and loving person seeking someone similar. Someone to have a family and a life with. If I sound like someone you think you could be with then message me. Because life’s short and you only regret the things you never did.

What are your favourite leisure activities?

I love to walk (looking for someone for romantic walks), read and write which is my main hobby. I have been writing since I was 16 and in the past few years have self-published two books. It is a dream of mine to be a writer. Away from that, I like to game a little and I am a fan of comedies.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

While I have never travelled outside the United Kingdom, some of my favourite places in the UK are Manchester and anywhere that has a seaside. I love to be near the sea. One of my favourite places to visit is Hemsby Beach.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

The Caribbean. There's something about it that looks so hot and peaceful.

What would you do on an ideal date?

I'm generally easy but do like something fun and non-pressure that both people can enjoy. Something that helps relax and ease the nerves. My ideal date would probably be walking around somewhere fun and just getting to know each other.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Loyalty and trust are a must. Thanks to past experiences I am not willing to be betrayed again or endure the pain that comes with it. It would be advantageous of you wanted children too. It's my dream to be a father and have a family. Apart from that, someone funny, kind, caring, and likes to cuddle on the sofa as much as go on exciting days out.

What makes a good relationship?

As my previous answer states, love and trust. There's no relationship if you don't trust the other person. However, there's no better feeling that trusting the person you're with. Also talking. Too many relationships don't have conversation in them and that leads to problems.

What makes you laugh?

Jokes. Real, no holds barred jokes and old school comedians. I also laugh every time at things like Inside No.9, Ricky Gervais, Karl Pilkington, things that seem innocent but are funny in an odd way. I'm also a huge stand-up comedian fan.

What music do you like?

I'm an oddity in that I don't really listen to music often. I'll hear a tune I like now and again, but really I'm a S-Club 7 kind of guy.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

Being in love. I know it's something many will role their eyes at but I was in love before it all ended - which is why I find myself back on the trail - but that's the truth. There's no greater feeling.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Being a father, a husband, having someone to love that loves me back equally. Hopefully being a writer and writing things that make people fall in love with stories.

What's your favourite television show?

Doctor Who. I know I sound like a bit of a geek but it's the show that made me fall in love with writing and want to tell stories. I've been a fan for decades now and never been as inspired as I was when it returned in 2005.

WWE is also up there. I've been a lifelong wrestling fan and continue to indulge in my love of it.