About Alias7

Alias7 is divorced and is seeking males for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.

Some people find it easy to know what to write in these sections and it can often be the make or break decision, a bit like your photo but I tend to try and get to know someone before I pass judgement.

I mean hey, who really likes their own selfies? I for one am not that photogenic and I will take about 50 before I even slightly like one. I don't wear make up daily as I prefer the natural look as someone needs to know what you look like on the days you feel awful with the flu and they can stand to stick around. Although I rarely ever get sick so that's a bonus!

I'm unique, an acquired taste, I can have a sarcastic humour but I am still empathic to other people. People often feel drawn to me as someone who won't judge and who is a good listener.

I'm that person that will have your back, stand in your corner and move heaven while walking through hell for you when it matters the most.

The ever empowering person in your life that will make you feel ten times higher and feel like you have hit the jack pot on a daily basis and I do this because people matter and we live in a world where we often forget to know our worth.

With fire in my belly and a spark that doesn't seem to die out even when others try to pour water on it, I bounce back with a feisty smile and a wicked smile. I can also be a little shy until I get to know you and what make you tick so I know how to read a room and people.

I don't stand for BS or boundaries being broken and I've healed myself to the point I know when to call it a day with human beings

I will call you out when you need to give your head or ego a wobble but I will also do the same with myself as I believe in grounded myself to and if that means I apologise and readjust then I'm adult enough to do this easily.

I'm divorced because sometimes people figure out their lives goals don't align or never did and I won't stay somewhere when I'm not an equal. I'm far past the games and would like now to find someone who knows how to appreciate the free things in life, be humble and grateful but able to kick ass together as a unit making life count and grabbing it while you can still breathe!

I don't drive but I am considering maybe learning to ride a motorbike although I have had a few car driving lessons so this is still a debatable topic-what's your thoughts? I already know I look good in leathers as I've been a pavilion on a bike and I have even done a bikers rally too which was so much fun!

As you can see, I am also a writer! So if you got this far then give yourself a round of applauds, maybe I should have told you to pull up a chair first and read this when you have more than 5 minutes to spare ha ha.

So this is a small part of me, an open book if you want to ask me questions and nothing really shocks me.

Edit-day 2: As a newcomer, I am getting a whole lot of mesages so please bear with me while I read them.

If I send you a thanks and take care please don't become the caveman type and puff out your chest and remind me why I enjoy being single!

Be civil and accept that it could be a distant issue, you may have something in your profile that doesn't align with mine.

There's enough humans on this planet for us all to have one each lol.

Keep smiling, be gracious and that will stand you in good stead for what ever it is you're on here looking for.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I don't have a 9-5 job, I am currently planning and preparing for running up my own business while setting up my house after a recent house move and some renovations.

I also lightly help with some family members who have some health conditions which keeps me humble and grateful for my own health.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Fuengirola in Spain has been somewhere I've been a fair few times over the years. I love the people and the atmosphere there.

It has an easy pace of life or a lively one, depending on what you want that day! The warmer weather is pretty much guaranteed compared to the UK which is always a bonus.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Good conversation that flows easily, a relaxed environment and hopefully not a pub if it's a first date as they can kill the conversation if it's too noisy.

Not everyone will be your cup of tea or want to go on a second date so someone who understands this is a positive as it shows they are being respectful and not overly pushy.

What makes a good relationship?

Open and honest communication, being able to be yourself and both parties growing together enjoying the ups and downs knowing that you will support each other.

Being able to be serious when needed but have a laugh at yourself and life usually helps the relationship stay on course.
Having passion in your belly as well as admiring your partner without them being glammed up or suited and booted keeps the desire alive.

If you can be still and silent and still fancy the pants off someone then you have a great combination!

What music do you like?

Hmm this would depend on my mood to be honest. It would probably be easier to say what music I don't listen to, lol, so let's start there.

So I'm not a fan of Tina Turner, Elton John, Cliff Richard, Tom Jones even though I grew up listening to them!
I enjoy a vast genre of music from charts to Spanish dance tunes, dance tunes, metal, drum and bass, some rap, country, soul and spiritual stuff that's all positive and good vibes.

I like something with a beat and uplifting if I'm in that kind of mood and if i am wanting to study or focus on a project then it will be easier on the ear kind of music.

I went to see Depeche Mode in the 90's and saw the Australian version of Pink Floyd which was amazing. I have seen Talon twice in the past 3 years as well.

But throw me a few song titles and I will happily go listen to them and see if I like them!

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Ohhh that would be starting my own business and losing a bit of weight so that is my main focus for 2026. I'm hoping to widen my social circle and as they say 'life begins at 50'.

I plan to start that now ha ha.