About AbsoluteHeathen

AbsoluteHeathen is single and is seeking males for friendship.

I've been through the mill, I guess we all have and that's exactly why we're here.
I'm not looking to get myself into another situationship which is why I'm cautiously looking to make friends with a like-minded man. With any luck something will blossom over time once we've been able to test our compatibility and get to know each other. No rush. No pressure.
I'm too old to be posting selfies and seeking validation from strangers 😂. Let's just talk openly and honestly and see if we connect on any meaningful level.
Ultimately I'm looking to settle into a nice quiet, loving life with someone who has enough free time and emotional availability to make things work between us. Serious not casual.
Ideally I'd like to meet someone with a secure attachment style. If your attachment style isn't secure, I'd expect you to be aware of that and actively working on it and managing it properly. That part is important to me.
I like going out for walks and doing a bit of photography at the minute. I'm learning to slow down and find calm in nature. When I have the energy I like to do more exciting things... But for now, this is enough 🙂