About StanKirby

StanKirby is married and is seeking females for a casual relationship.

What do you like most about where you currently live?

It's a good neighbourhood. Open, and airy.

What do you enjoy most about your current job?

I gave it up - now retired at 60..

What are your favourite leisure activities?

Writing, painting, guitar.

Where in the world are your favourite places?

Scarborough ; London ; Edinburgh ; Cardiff.

Where in the world would you love to visit?

New York - but I've given up on flying.

What would you do on an ideal date?

Eat lovely food ; relax with a lovely lady ; no expectations. Far more important to be kind and interested.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Someone who's not looking for a partner - I'd like consensual sex without any strings. That doesn't mean I'm uncaring - far, far from it. But we can be independent without losing mutual appreciation.

What makes a good relationship?

The ability to appreciate someone else for who they are - NOT to change them, nor for them to want to change me. And a sexy figure would always be nice ...

What makes you laugh?

Unusual things. Sometimes, the mundane. There's humour all around you - if you know how to look ...

What music do you like?

Queen. Tom Waits. Harder rock. But - ska, reggae - big bands - anything interesting.

What has been the highlight of your life so far?

My two grown-up daughters. I'm still with their mother, and love her - but sex, intimacy etc have never been on her list. I'm not looking to cheat on her - but I do think someone out there might enjoy a little fun with me.

What are you looking forward to in the future?

Not sure ! Well, it's honest !

Why me ?

I'm genuine. Warm. Overweight, but ever hopeful of slimming. I'd like YOU to like ME. I have ideas about sensuality we could explore. I'm not at all perfect. But I try hard. Mhmmm .... hard ....