About Forums

Forums is single and is seeking males for friendship.

FORUMS ONLY — please read before messaging

I’m here for the forums (debate and discussion boards under “More”) and that’s it. I genuinely enjoy the discussions and that’s how I choose to spend my time online — no interest in personal chat or small talk. I’ve been on this site for 10+ years and I’m very comfortable with how I use it.

I’m happily single and staying that way. I don’t date or do relationships — I’m content, independent, and not looking to change that. My choices don’t affect anyone else, so there’s no need to take them personally.

Fluent in sarcasm — gentle warning for the thin-skinned 😌

My hobbies are make-up and photography, which is why my profile photos look the way they do. They reflect a creative interest — not an invitation for compliments or criticism.

I’m not compliment-dependent and my self-esteem doesn’t come from strangers. Compliments won’t “unlock” conversation, revive a dead one, or change my boundaries.

My life outside this site is private.
I don’t share my real name, job, or exact location. Norwich is accurate enough — you don’t need to know where within Norwich. I ask that this is respected without pushing. I also don’t communicate off this site — no Snapchat, WhatsApp, phone numbers, meet-ups, or personal connections. This isn’t personal; it’s simply how I choose to live.

Please don’t message just to comment on my appearance or to offer opinions about my lifestyle choices.

If you choose to send inappropriate, sexual, nasty, or abusive messages, please be aware they can still and will be reported even if you block afterwards.

Be kind — it truly costs nothing. Everyone is carrying things you can’t see.

I sometimes check profiles, but this isn’t a back-and-forth game. If you have something to say, say it. If not, feel free to move along.

Thanks for understanding.