About Forums

Forums is single and is seeking males for friendship.

FORUMS ONLY (online discussion and debate boards) - under “more”- you don’t need to ask anymore than this.
I’m here for the forums—nothing else. I’ve been around for over 10 years, made friends, and this is how I enjoy spending my time online.

My life outside this site is private. No names, jobs, locations, or other apps. I do have WhatsApp, but we won’t be chatting there. No Snapchat, no phone numbers, no meetups, no personal connections, and definitely no “getting to know each other” outside of here.

I’m sarcastic. If that bothers you, move along. I’m not nasty, but don’t take yourself too seriously—how you react says more about you than me.

If your first message is about my appearance, don’t expect a polite reply. Looks fade; depth matters.

Harassment, nastiness, racism, or inappropriate messages will be reported. Kindness costs nothing.

Being single is my choice. I don’t discuss my relationship history, so don’t ask how long I’ve been single—it’s personal, and I’m a private person. Women aren’t afraid to be single; I’m actually thriving. The longer I’ve been on my own, the more I’ve realized—thanks to men on this and similar sites—that I don’t have the time, energy, or patience for emotional immaturity, ego, or entitlement, especially from those old enough to know better.

Being single for me is permanent. It’s my lifestyle, not a “phase.” If that intimidates you, ask yourself why. Many men seem to need a partner to function, while many women build full lives without one. Respect that. I don’t need your opinion on my life choices as they do not impact strangers online in any way.

Respect my space—or move along 🙂