About Firststeps
Firststeps is married and is seeking females for friendship or a casual relationship or a serious relationship.
Hello potential new friend,
Request AND Confession.. Please read all the profile. I HAVE written a lengthy one but reading it fullly may save time in the end as it is always a shame to jump right in and start chatting with someone (potentially wasting a whole lot more than the required 60 seconds of reading time) only to find out that “i wouldn’t have spoken to you had I known…(what was in the profile anyway)”.
So… I am part new man and ( probably) part evolving neanderthal..I am a little shy to start with but can chat for England when past any nerves. I can cook to a recipe . I like sport (mostly, but not exclusively, football) . I like an occasional beer or glass of wine and I HAVE watched ‘ Strictly’ now and then. I would love it if someone could teach ME to dance..
I am Hampshire based but love to go to London . It is a great city for visitors ( music, sport, theatre, history, museums, comedy, architecture and art galleries etc). . I mostly go solo to those kind of things and am fine with that but wandering around a bit and having a laugh with someone while experiencing them together, or having a coffee during the times in between, might make them even more enjoyable.( That would apply to anyone locally as well as when visiting London)
Non London interests and those closer to home include cinema, going to the gym , live music, swimming, theatre and anything that keeps my brain active. I try to help with that last thing by playing online Scrabble and doing puzzles.
What am I looking for? Good question! Friendship is a non negotiable starting point and whilst I am NOT looking for 24/7 or anything permanent , I am not looking for one offs either. Even if I see them on just an occasional/infrequent basis, I want to keep friendships going once made. Distance might limit the frequency of ‘ in person’ meetings but chat has no geographical boundary limits and can be done at any time. I guess I am looking for a ‘serious friendship’ and always take the view that friendship IS a benefit in itself .
When considering friendship i don’t think about age, shape, colour, income, relationship status or disabilities . I think about humour, attitude, self awareness, intelligence and ability to make me laugh or think. If you can (or want to) banter; if you can be playfully silly; if you love comedy, if you still have an inner child and jump puddles, if you are capable of discussing ‘serious’ stuff as well as weird and wacky then i am going to be interested . The idea of a gal pal with whom each of chat, flirting , giggly teasing and taking the hiss ( typo) out of each other can take place, not necessarily all on the same day , but in and amongst regular or ‘serious’ conversation, sounds nice. It isn’t essential but I am not averse to the idea of touch if it suits both. If it ever took place it would occur after a fully informed, trusting, consensual, bedrock of friendship had been established and the fullest of ‘ full and frank’ discussions had taken place.
Health considerations and having to acknowledge the fragility of life and its uncertainties are partly responsible for this profile and as a result I am trying to ‘ carpe diem’ a little more. Some but not all might understand my reasons for creating a profile (feel free to ask) but if you are looking to develop new interests and perhaps occasional male company to do stuff with, or perhaps to make a new ‘ boy pal’ chat buddy if we are too far apart to ever meet, drop me a line. A quick chat will soon establish if there is any click potential. FYI ..and just to be clear ( I don’t have the memory to remember multiple fibs ), my status on here is correct
Have fun whether i hear from you or not ( I hope I might)
Appearance
- Hair Wasn't listed as an option
- Eyes Hazel
- Height 5' 8" / 173cm
- Weight 14 st 9 lbs / 93kg
- Body type Average
- Glasses Yes
- Ethnicity White
- DisabledNo
Politics
- Stance Left of Centre
Qualifications
- Qualifications a degree
Employment
- Situation Retired
- Sector Education
- Income I'd rather not say
Lifestyle
- Alcohol Light Drinker
- Smoking Non-smoker
- Diet No Special Diet
- Religion Not religious, but I don't practice my religion
- Interests
animals and arts and books and cooking and countryside and dancing and gym and health and movies and
music—listening and outdoor activities and pubs and restaurants andsport—watching and theatre and travel and TV
Children
- Have No
- Want I don't want to have children
Housing
- Home I own my home
- Live With Wasn't listed as an option